7 Tips For Enjoying The Conquer Him Community
Whether you can tell or not, there is so much LOVE for the concept of loving Female Led Relationships. I can tell by looking at the traffic that this site receives, the many emails I get from readers, the number of people who join my FLR Coaching Classes and the appreciation I get on social media.
Because so many people sent in emails requesting more interaction with others in FLRs, they also said they wanted to find people to date and to finally be able to share in the joys and pains of developing a relationship that is not yet mainstream, I created a private social community called Conquer Him Community.
The Conquer Him Community is about 6 months old right now. The membership is small but growing steadily. The feedback I get from the members: they appreciate knowing they have a safe place to share if the need arises. The activity level depends on the people we attract and their level of interest in learning more about FLRs.
The Conquer Him Community welcomes every person who is in support of loving Female Led Relationships. We welcome both men, women and everyone in between. As long as you are honest about who you are, you use a real photo of your face as your profile picture and you are not a masochist or professional domme, you are more than welcome to join us.
Understand the benefits of joining Conquer Him Community.
The biggest benefit is seeing so many beautiful faces that you would probably NEVER meet or chat with in any other environment. Because almost everyone who joins Conquer Him Community is in agreement with the concept of loving Female Led Relationships, you will find that the connections you make there will be sincere, if you take the effort to make them.
Don’t expect to find hundreds of people in the Community YET.
Conquer Him will be celebrating its 2nd birthday this July and the Community is only 6 months old so we are still in the beginning stages. Consider the fact that you may be all alone right now in living out and appreciating your FLR and through this Community you will meet your first connections for developing a friendship base who truly understands and supports you. These connections live all around the world.
As we grow, you get to be a part of the group that sets the pace for conversations. Although sometimes it seems that the Community is quiet, when I check the stats for the day it shows that nearly half of the members visit on a daily basis. This means that they are checking to see who has been added to the site and if someone has posted something new.
If you want to share and get feedback, just ask. Of course, I am always available to answer questions from Community members and there are others there who are open and willing to connect with you and support you.
Check your spam folder after you apply for membership.
I have noticed at least a dozen women have applied to be a part of the Community and then do not register. Sometimes these women even send me a second application as though they have not received a response from me. I personally respond to membership requests within hours if not minutes of receiving the application. No one is turned away from joining- ever.
If you have not received a reply from me after completing the membership application please email me directly to see what happened or check your spam or ‘other’ tabs because just as sure as you submitted your application, I have approved you to join. I promise.
If you have problems viewing the Community it is probably because of your profile.
Before anyone can interact within the Community I ask that you upload a real photo of your face as your profile photo, upload a cover photo for your personal profile and complete a couple of questions on your profile so that we can learn more about you. If you do not complete these 3 tasks you won’t be able to access the Community at all because the content will be locked. I set up the system this way because I did not want a Community filled with blank profiles from people who just wanted to take a peek.
If you are having an issue with your photo uploads, please use the email address listed at the bottom of the Community and send me a note with your photo attached. I will upload your photo for you if you need help. I do not allow profiles with stock images or illustrations as photos. Although you never have to reveal your name if you do not want to, I do not allow anonymous users to hide behind a fake photo. You should be proud of who you are and the beautiful relationship you are creating.
I am always available to help you to work through any issues you may have with navigating the Community and there is a handy WELCOME page that has instructions for using the Community as well.
You can move up in membership levels by being active in the Community.
There is a levels program in the Community that logs every time you visit, make a comment, post a reply to someone else’s post, participate in the forums and create a blog post to share with everyone in the Community. There are 4 levels: newbie, Level 1, Level 2, Level 3 and FLR Guru. These levels are automatically calculated and badges are awarded by the system based on your participation. Those who reach the higher levels enjoy special privileges like being moderator or discounts on the FLR Coaching Programs, products and other events.
Ask for advice openly and use the Community to share your FLR stories.
The Community is set up like a social network. You have your own personal profile, we have a forum with special sections, you have the opportunity to post status updates, comment on the updates of others, post photos, share links and even create blog posts that will only be shared with people in the Community. I have shared my personal sex stories, dating stories, updates about the development of a Female Led Society and general frustrations with life.
You can make this your online home if you want knowing that there are people there who want to celebrate with you through all of your life’s twists and turns.
Your profile stands out when you complete the Conquer Him Training Program.
People who successfully complete one of the Conquer Him Training Programs are automatically invited to join the Community. Graduates of the FLR Women’s Leadership Training and Becoming an Anchor Training For Men who choose to participate will create profiles that will look a little different from the rest of the members because I want to indicate to others that I have gotten to know them through the coaching program and I think that they are awesome.
There is no reason NOT to join us in the Conquer Him Community. If you like what you are reading then we like you too. You know that we will be patient and kind to you. We will answer any questions that you may have and you can be PROUD of who you are when you decide to join us.