5 Misconceptions About Female Led Relationships

When most people first hear about the term Female Led Relationships, quite a few stereotypes come to mind. Because the average mind can not deviate from the brain washing of society, they may not be able to move past these 5 negative misconceptions of Female Led Relationships.

Female Led Relationships are the same as Femdom Relationships.

Female Led Relationships are not the same as Femdom Relationships but they do have similar elements. Femdom Relationships are more about the power exchange dynamic of control where the female demonstrates her dominance over the male consistently to remind him of her authority.  She rules with a firm hand.

Female Led Relationships are based more on the relationship aspect than the dominance. The man in a Female Led Relationship willingly offers authority to his Goddess and is there to support her as she sets goals and steers the relationship. There is no need for her to make grand demonstrations or prove her authority consistently because their relationship is not based on his need to feel inferior. She rules with a kiss.

Female Led Relationships are based on degrading the male partner.

Participating in a Female Led Relationships are often a great starting point to engage safely in other kinks and fetishes due to the level of trust the couples develop with each other. Humiliation and degradation are two kinks that many people enjoy. Couples within a Female Led Relationship may enjoy this type of S&M play as well, however, it is not mandatory unless her partner is a masochist, a person who becomes emotionally and sexually excited by pain.

A woman in a Female Led Relationship with a man who is not a masochist may never employ degradation tactics to inspire him to obedience or to achieve sexual arousal. Instead, she spends her time reciprocating appreciation for his support by uplifting him just as much as he uplifts her. Love is the motivating factor for Female Led Relationships, not kink.

Female Led Relationships are for weak/feminine men.

It is asinine to assume that traits like being supportive, attentive, nurturing and loving are traits of weakness. To associate femininity with being weak is also indicative of a brainwashed and deplorable mind.

Men who involve themselves in Female Led Relationships are much more astute than their counterparts. It takes an extraordinary personality type to attract and maintain a romantic relationship with a Goddess who is capable of leading in a Female Led Relationship. A weak minded partner would not last because a Goddess would not have the time or energy to play games with him.

A man involved in a Female Led Relationship is an asset to the Goddess he is connected to and very likely an asset to the lives of everyone he encounters because he is wise, skilled and unconventional. He is smart enough to attach himself to greatness when he sees it instead of living out life instructions that someone else created.

Female Led Relationships are for women who want to be a Dominatrix.

Goddesses who elect to become involved in Female Led Relationships are not always into domination or control. Some people are better leaders than followers and that is really what this dynamic boils down to. A woman in a Female Led Relationship is with a man who understands that her leadership skills are far superior to his and he supports her strengths so that she can develop into the amazing woman she was meant to be.

Female Led Relationships are based on the idea of female supremacy.

Female supremacy is an entirely different concept. Female Led Relationships are about two people in a long term, romantic, loving partnership who decide that in this case, the female has a superior intellect and should lead the relationship. Not all women are superior intellectually and that is why it is difficult for some men to engage in Female Led Relationships because they have chosen women that are less intellectually developed than they are.

Conquer Him does not support the concept of female supremacy simply based on gender. We do support the concept of female supremacy when the loving couple decides that their relationship is one based on this concept. There is no way to gauge whether a certain gender is superior over another when we are all human and expectations based on gender are socially constructed.

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