A Message For the Men of Conquer Him
This is Queenie, the Publisher of ConquerHim.Com and I want to reach out to you to address an issue that hinders me from continuing this project.
Conquer Him is for WOMEN. This site aims to teach women the value of partnering with a submissive man and how to lead him with LOVE. Through my Female Led Relationship trainings and the articles posted on this site, I encourage women to honor you and appreciate your submission yet I am having a difficult time with my desire to continue doing this because many of you write to me privately to share your kinks and fetishes and it honestly makes me feel disturbed.
It is always okay to be kinky and freaky, but your detailed descriptions of what you want a woman to do to you sexually and how freaky you are is the same as sending me a picture of your privates- I DO NOT WANT TO READ THAT!
I am not here to validate your kinks or to be a dumping ground for your fetishes. No woman wants to know all about your secret desires aside from the woman you are in a relationship with. Keep it to yourself until you trust that the woman you are speaking to really cares for you.
Again, do not write to me sharing your sexual fantasies. I do not want to read them. I block you from emailing me and on other social sites that you try to use to contact me. I do not care what you are fantasizing about.
If you want a woman who will care about your fantasies, show love to women in general and one of them will honor you for how well you care for her. THEN you can share some of your fantasies when you feel safe with that women and ONLY that woman.
Sometimes I want to stop working on this simply because you all try to make this about what YOU want. This is NOT about what you want. Female Led Relationships are about creating the fantasies of the WOMAN and you supporting her vision for your relationship by allowing her to lead. I am NOT teaching women to serve you sexually and make your fantasies come true, I am teaching them how to create their own fantasies and allow you to be a part of them, while loving you every moment that you are there.
Stop thinking that this is about you. If you want someone to fulfill your fantasies, go and PAY someone to do it. Stop trying to lead women to fulfill your needs. You are being manipulative and selfish and in no way does this ever constitute a FLR.