Carla and I started dating in the mid-1980s. It was a blind date set up by a mutual friend that had known me since our early teens and worked with Carla at a business in midtown Manhattan. Our first date was at the Metropolitan Museum of Art. We met in the early afternoon. My first
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I suppose that I have always fantasized about being with a dominant woman, but it was about 5 years ago that I started to read about FLR and to begin to understand that there was much more to it. A few years back, I did hire a pro domme for a couple of 3 hour sessions. I liked being submissive but
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It started with a walk to the park. There I sat, watching the sun go down over the lake at MacArthur Park simply minding my own business. A woman walks by and asks if she could sit with me and I shrug. She regales me with stories of her latest life adventures. Despite many setbacks
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I wanted to express a few feelings and sentiments regarding the often contentious issues of ‘obedience’ and ‘polyandry’ within the context of a committed FLR. As it happens, both these ideas work well for us and have contributed to our mutual love and respect but they are not easy concepts to embrace. Nor are they
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As I continue to coordinate Conquer Him’s Female Led Relationship Training For Women, the ladies who participate are free to share every concern they have while structuring their FLRs. There are a few issues that most women seem to mention but there is one that stands out because it directly impacts the basic ingredient of
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Femdom (female domination) is a BDSM term that describes a relationship between a man and a woman that is based on hierarchy. The woman is the ultimate authority and enforcer of rules in her relationship. She expends a great amount of time and effort ensuring that her male partner is compliant with her wishes. Femdom
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People may argue about whether or not a Female Led Relationship needs to use chastity control to work well. They may also debate about whether or not the man is inferior to the woman in the relationship. Of all the debates and options all couples may encounter while structuring their Female Led Relationship there is
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Greetings Queenie! I am GLAD that I joined this page … THANK YOU for having me. I have so many questions .. I want to learn from others and share as I unfold the mysteries that are encapsulated with this adventure. I married an “Alpha Female”. She is smarter than me, and I am okay
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Dear Queenie, I have been married for over 25 years (almost 3 years separated, while in a divorce process). I was a “Stay-home-dad” (was interviewed by American Baby and a local news station and was written up by two major (Boston) newspapers and two local ones as well. I was the modern day “House Husband”, took
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Greetings Queenie! First of all I have to say that the site is great. Not only the articles but the design as well. The subject I’d really want to discuss is none other than Female Superiority/Led Relationships, but more specifically. I am submissive in nature and I love serving women. Should I serve all women? I’m
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I am involved in a Female Led Relationship that does not use chastity. I love self pleasure and would be miserable if I didn’t do it several times a day. That in no way diminishes the absolute love, adoration and respect that I have for my girlfriend and she does not see it as a
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With the next Female Led Training Group For Women just two weeks away, I am excited to share that the amazing Mistress Ivey will be joining the group! Mistress Ivey is the author of Becoming a Mistress blog where she has been dedicated to educating readers on how to create loving, Female Led Relationships for
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If you are seeking a Female Led Relationship because you are tired of attracting dominant men who put their needs first and do not consider you at all, you are not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, many women yearn for FLRs because they are the most healing relationships you may ever
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Dear Queenie, I fantasize about being a woman’s housework slave and being her foot slave giving her, her absolute pleasure. In your opinion, is this a healthy fantasy? I have recently started to fantasize about a woman locking me in chastity and making me beg her for my pleasure, is this a good thing for
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We’ve been married for seventeen years. When we met, in addition to her looks, I was attracted to her personality, intellect and strong moral compass. While she wasn’t overtly dominant, she was always strong willed and unbending about certain things, including our relationship. She expected and demanded certain behaviors from me. While I often reacted
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Our July 2015 Female Led Relationship Training Class is now officially over! Of the 4 students who participated, 3 submitted feedback on the course. Here are their unedited reviews along with my responses. What do you believe was the biggest benefit of participating? Student 1: Having had to reflect and write about my
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I have written about some of the major issues the women in our Female Led Training group presented during our 4 weeks together and now it is time to offer my own issues. Understanding that I am a student of FLR just like you, I organize these trainings because I am a teacher and gifted
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During Conquer Him Academy’s Female Led Relationship training course, women report being overwhelmed by the concept of a FLR. They say they feel pressured to conform to the ideals that their submissive partners present and it causes them to slack off in disappointment. One student reported that her husband consistently requested that she dress in
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When you sign up for the Conquer Him Academy’s Female Led Relationship Training Group For Women, you will be educated on the basic principles of a FLR and you will be challenged to become the best version of yourself. One of the issues that I encountered with a former student was the issue of being
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One of the challenges of running the Conquer Him Academy is facing real people with real situations and sometimes having to identify issues in their personalities that they did not realize they had. Over the next few days, I will share some of the issues that I attempted to coach the women through. Of the
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