Becoming A Goddess Training Progress Update- Week 1 & 2
This month’s Female Led Relationship coaching program was filled to capacity and so far I have been coaching a group of women who are unlike any I have ever coached before.
I opened up our private Facebook group a week early so that the women could post their introductions and meet each other before we had our first class session.
All of these women are married and in relationships where their husbands want Female Led Relationships. In fact, I believe all of the women in this course were signed up by their partners who wanted them to have support and get to know other dominant women. These ladies live all around the country and are involved in a variety of careers. The most interesting career to me is a woman who calls herself a domestic Goddess. She is adorable!
Our first LIVE class where we met via web conference was quite unusual. Why? This group of women are more open and lively than the ones in the past. While my last group was completely concerned about using alternate names for themselves and hiding who they are, this group is more open and as soon as the LIVE class started, they all jumped on webcams to say hello!
I was shocked and delighted to use this feature which I had never even thought to introduce before. I promised them that we would make web cam chatting a regular part of our classes since they felt more connected to each other that way.
The first LIVE class is always very intense because I take the ladies through a review of their current situations and the issues that they face in structuring and leading their FLRs. I speak to each woman individually during the group call and assess their struggles so that I can present more detailed guidance the following week after I have had to time to think about each student.
During the first week, the lessons I introduce via our online Academy always present themselves as extremely eye opening to the students. This guides them to have their first epiphany, removing some of the pressure they feel when designing their FLRs.
By the second week, the pressure is really on because this is when I challenge them even more. I do not challenge them physically, these are mental challenges of their beliefs as I attempt to reconstruct the issue they present to me and reframe the belief system that is holding them back from being true leaders in their relationships.
The issue that I see most often is lack of knowledge about their choices for a FLR. Most women seem to think that they have to be some crazy, mean dominatrix and I assure them that they are only required to be themselves. I also encounter a lack of confidence when I meet the students. They express that they feel guilty being dominant, putting their needs first, making requests from their submissive partners and offering punishments that they feel are not very nice.
I reframe those beliefs and explain to them how they need to think about the issues in order to give themselves permission to be selfish and to lead. I explain to them how allowing their partner to serve them actually benefits them as well as the fact that the men crave their leadership because it makes them better men.
The women in this group are phenomenal! No one is making excuses. No one is missing assignments. Every single woman has had an epiphany that has shifted their relationships forward! This is life changing for them as I share with them the options they have and support their choices. I challenge them to stand up and they are reporting that my coaching is working AFTER ONLY TWO WEEKS!
Aside from my personal coaching and instructions, throughout the course we have daily discussions in our Facebook group. Sometimes I ask very simple questions and some of them require more thought, just to be sure that certain themes are introduced for them to form a strong opinion about. There are no right or wrong answers, I simply encourage all of the women to decide what they want so they can behave accordingly.
We also post writing assignments in the group that coincide with the lessons we are studying in the Conquer Him Academy, our online school. One of this week’s lessons is How To Establish Dominance and this in no way has anything to do with femdom although femdom techniques are taught at the the student’s requests. In fact, it does not matter what the ladies want to learn, if they request it when they register, I will teach it.
By the time the second week is over I feel a sense of relief because the ladies now have a very firm understanding of the options they have for structuring their FLRs. I then challenge them to create relationship contracts so that we can discuss them in the group.
The next two weeks during our Tuesday LIVE class, we will have guest speakers. These are women who have been involved in long term Female Led Relationships and are extremely happy. Having these guest speakers come in allows the ladies to hear a completely different perspective than I would offer so that they can feel empowered by a variety of opinions and love stories.
You should join us during our next FLR Coaching Group for Women. We are teaching women how to Become a Goddess in a Female Led Relationship and the next group is set to begin in less than 3 weeks! The spaces are limited to ensure that every woman receives personal attention and support. Sign up now!
This will be the final coaching group for this year!