Becoming A Goddess Training Progress Update- Week 3 & 4
By the time week 4 of our Female Led Relationship training rolled around, I was very much inclined to ask myself- Where are the women I first met when we began?
When the women first turned in their introduction assignments and we took the time to talk out each of their issues the frustration with themselves and their relationships was nearly palpable.
During week 1 I used my training as a Marriage/Family Counselor to figure out what the real issues were underlying their frustration. During week 2 we hit a snag, at least for me. I lost the recording notes of our first meeting so I had to wing it during the RESOLUTION call as I offered each women actionable tactics and remedies to their issues. It put me on the spot, but further confirmed that I am awesome at this.
By week 3 the women were more relaxed and seemed to have had their personal epiphanies. We spent the 3rd week in our private Facebook group discussing leadership and what that truly means in a Female Led Relationship. During one of our discussion questions, I noticed that their responses were not lining up properly and I decided to shake them and wake them up.
I posted an impromptu video with a lecture that challenged them so much that the group was quiet for 2 days. I wanted a reaction. I wanted an emotional response. I wanted them to really take a firm look in the mirror and know for real if they were truly living our FLRs or if they were playing games.
By week 4 the ladies were emerging again and offering feedback on the challenge video. It seems that it did work, although it pissed some of them off.
As I met with each woman during our final week one woman said to me- “After I watched that video I went to my husband and shared with him what you said and then it hit me- We have been in a FLR since the day we met. I have never been doing anything wrong.”
“What changed?” I asked her as we met privately via web cam.
She shook her head and looked away. “It’s just my view of things. That’s all that changed. I see it for what it really is now.”
During our final call Mistress Ivey shared her thoughts on Tease & Denial and even offered every student free copies of ALL of her books including the one that is about to come out in December! We were elated.
It seems like each group I have makes even more progress. Every single person in this group completed ALL of the assignments. There was one near drop out, because she said she and her husband’s relationship had improved so much that she felt like she was on a second honeymoon and didn’t need the class. But she came back and turned in her assignments and when we met privately she expressed that I was a wake up call for her to appreciate her husband more.
One by one I met with them via webcam privately to answer any lingering questions and they expressed gratitude for my support and the support of the others in the group. In direct contrast to how they first presented themselves, all of the women seemed completely relaxed and confident. I am not joking or trying to make this up. I was pretty shocked myself.
My Biggest Challenge
This group was very different from the last group of women in that they were very eager to progress and showed it by completing all of their assignments and showing up to every single LIVE CLASS. No one ever missed a class.
So my biggest challenge was merely the fact that this class wanted to use webcams and socialize so I had to get dressed each week during the LIVE CLASS. Yes, that was it. Working from home through digital pursuits I usually earn all of my income in my underwear but this group wanted to laugh, joke and see each other on web cam. I encouraged them to enjoy each other and I did my hair, pulled on a dress and joined in.
I will have to record for posterity that SOMEONE made her husband jump on camera and show off during our last class! That was hilarious!
My Biggest Lesson
My biggest lesson from this group came in the form of hearing all about what it is like to truly have a husband who cares. I will be honest, as a single woman teaching how to create strong and healthy FLRs, I got into this for business sake and because I thought the dynamic was fascinating. By interviewing dozens of couples in happy FLRs and learning the common themes that make them successful and then teaching it, I am so learning myself. BUT- nothing compares to spending a month working with women who are with men who adore them.
I have to tell any of you single women who are wondering if you will ever meet a man who will honor you and cherish you- IT DOES EXIST.
It really does.
The women who have completed this course are all with men who cherish them. We had so much fun discussing the men and their kinky ways, helping the ladies to learn to lead, to show love through kink and listening to them brag about how well they are treated.
Breakfast in bed. Foot rubs. Hand kisses. Random gifts. Listening to desires. Apologies. Team work. Making dreams come true together. These are ALL things the women bragged about. They have great men who truly love them.
Female Led Relationships are REAL and attainable and it starts with just a few key principles and is ushered along by a man who truly wants to be led.
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