Being Chaste Is What’s Best For Our Marriage
Before I asked my Wife to marry me I gave her a CB-2000 male chastity device as a kind of a gag gift for Xmas. I gave it to her and I promised her that I would wear it when ever she wanted me to because her previous live-in boyfriend and husband before him both left her for the other women they were doing. I had no idea it actually worked.
We were married with me wearing the cage two weeks prior to the wedding.. Needless to say I did not have a bachelor party. In the next couple of years she started to demand that I wear it more and more until one day it finally broke the base ring.
She surprised me by saying, “You get another one ordered right now and pay for two day shipping!” This once church-going woman that would have nothing to do with anything kinky had now become very demanding about my chastity. I never thought she would like it, boy was I wrong!
Looking back that was the beginning of keeping me locked all the time. Its a catch 22 for me. I felt guilty every time I would pleasure myself when I had freedom so I know that since that’s not happening any more I pay much more attention to her.
I know that her keeping me locked in chastity is what’s best for our marriage, but still my little locked one wants so badly to be free and she’s kept him locked the pretty much the past nine years.
I know she will not allow me to be free again for more than a day and somehow I don’t know why, but I’m proud that she has become so demanding about keeping me locked.
We are both happy with this new lifestyle with her in control.
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I feel that there is nothing wrong with a woman wanting her mate to wear a chastity device. I honestly feel that in most cases, it is almost necessary for a woman to control a mans sexuality(at least in the beginning.) to establish a successful female led relationship. It is a major step to establishing her authority, and his submission, and commitment and submission. The key, is a symbol of that. In addition, it helps men gain some sense of self control. Sadly,many men have become slaves to their sexuality, and fall prey to the temptation of porn and infidelity. This can be an effective tool in curbing that.
Yes I agree and I have adjusted well to wearin it all the time since 2003.
I wrote that article and my Wife began locking me in 2002. She has kept me locked ever since. I now wear a 3D printed Cherry Keeper device that is ver light and fits perfectly. It’s easy to clean too.
My Wife’s opinion is there is no reason for me to ever be unlocked unless we are having sex, and she decides when that is.
Guess it is a good way to learn selfcontrol,humbled to respect of your dominant and the pleasure we take for granted. We should enjoy the time in intimacy with our dominant it is so much better for our inner self, relationship and commitment to her.