What Can You Learn From AboutFLR.Com?
There is a long-standing website about Female Led Relationships called AboutFLR.Com. Before I created Conquer Him and LovingFLR.Com, AboutFLR was the only community website dedicated to Female Led Relationships.
I learned about this site a little more than a year after I created Conquer Him. One of the readers of Conquer Him recommended that I join it and after a brief hesitation because I did not want to be influenced in any way by what they did there, I signed up.
It seemed to be a community where they had ebooks, articles and a private way to search and message others interested in Female Led Relationships without focusing on kink.
Unfortunately, just two days after I created my profile my account was deleted. I reached out to administrators via email twice to ask why but I never received a response. I am not certain if I violated any terms of agreement. I mean, I didn’t get a chance to use the site or download anything. I had received one message from a man who found my profile and asked about Conquer Him because I mentioned that I was the creator of Conquer Him on my profile. Other than that, I never got to be a part of anything.
Instead of wondering what happened and why I could not be a part of what they were building, I let it go and created The Conquer Him Community for Loving Female Led Relationships where anyone can join and privately interact with others who are involved in or interested in creating Loving Female Led Relationships that are not based on BDSM, kink or humiliation. Our Community is currently 50% male, 50% female.
This topic came to mind because a man recently wrote to me after confusing my site LovingFLR.Com with AboutFLR. He asked about his “reputation points” and praised AboutFLR so much that I felt a twang of sadness that I was never allowed to be a part of it. Since I was not permitted to join AboutFLR, can anyone share how the site works and how you benefit from being a part of it? Do I present information on FLRs differently than they do? What am I missing out on? What has your experience been like there?