Dear Queenie: I Want to Be a Foot Slave
I fantasize about being a woman’s housework slave and being her foot slave giving her, her absolute pleasure. In your opinion, is this a healthy fantasy?
I have recently started to fantasize about a woman locking me in chastity and making me beg her for my pleasure, is this a good thing for me to want out of an FLR?
Queenie, I have a foot and shoe fetish, I am single and if I did have a dominant Goddess to serve. I would be buying her loads of sexy shoes, flip flops, boots and sandals? Do you think most women would love to be spoilt in this way?
I also think it is very arousing to do a woman’s housework and her cleaning. I love the idea about doing her laundry and ironing her clothes, this is a bit of a turn on for me. What is your opinion of this as well.
I also love to the thought of giving a woman foot rubs and foot pampering by soaking them in a foot spa with foot soak in it and then painting her toenails for her so she does not have to do it herself. Is this desire good and healthy as well?
I also love to cook delicious candlelit romantic meals for a woman as well.
I would like your thoughts on my questions.
There is nothing wrong with having fantasies of serving a Goddess in this way. Your kink of foot worship which is quite normal among kinksters.
In fact, all of your desires are very common among submissive men, although some have other kinks outside of foot worship. This is nothing to be ashamed of at all. Most women love shoes so you would be quite a catch!
My suggestion to you is to get out and date. Instead of looking for a woman who is willing to allow you to worship her feet, find a woman who is worthy of the love you want to express. Not every woman will appreciate all that you have to offer so look for someone who you can offer your service to as a gift. Try to identify a woman who is hard working and does not need you, but would appreciate your service as a gift for her dedication to creating an amazing life for herself.
Be careful NOT to mention your fetish when you first meet a woman, especially if she is knowledgable about kink and BDSM. An amazing Goddess will see it as a red flag if a man immediately tries to satisfy his kinks when he first meets her.
Instead offer her service, without the foot worship. When she shows that she truly and sincerely appreciates it, tell her that you feel like her Prince and you want to make sure she is cared for in all ways.
If she is aware of her role as a Goddess she will appreciate the offer and take advantage of it. If she is a masochist or has been in abusive relationships in the past, she will believe you are trying to hurt her in some way and will reject you. You can not change a woman, you should respect her wishes and find someone who will appreciate what you have to offer without too much of a fight.
Remember that a true LOVING female led married or female led relationship is about a long term commitment between two people who respect and take care of each other. If for some reason she loses her feet in an accident, the person you choose should continue to be the love of your life. Kink is a reward, it should not be the deciding factor.
Service is the goal, here.
When you serve her to help her create the life of her dreams, this should cause just as much pleasure as having your kink satisfied. If it does not, you are not looking for a FLR and you can pay someone to play kinky games with you. FLR is about service with LOVE. You help her create her fantasy life and in return she appreciates you for being amazing to her and ensures that your needs are met as well.