3 Responses to “Dear Queenie: My Family is Against My Gender Role Reversed Wedding

  • Wbile I respect the choice they both made, I object to forcing it on others who are not part of the lifestyle.

    They mentioned having two ceremonies anyway. In my opinion, the wedding should be more traditional while the second could be more expressive of their true status and be populated by those sympathetic to our cause.
    I understand, that they are both looking to break some ground here.
    Why alienate the family and friends over this. A wedding is supposed to be a joyous occasion.
    This doesn’t sound like fun for anyone inolved.

    Perhaps I just don’t get it.
    I feel really bad for the man’s mom who will not be there.

    Btw, the changing name thing is not such a big deal. People are generally accepting of that. I grew up in CA where people become enlightened and take Indian names.

    Just my two cents,


  • Congrats on finding true love. i truly feel sorry for your situation. i would love to know how you solvd the problem. As we get olser its harder and haredr to make these decisions. Hope all is going well for you and your fmaily

  • She will not respect you.

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