Are You Afraid to Be Submissive to a Woman?

There are countless men who have secret fantasies of being submissive to a woman. Those secret desires often express themselves in overly egotistical behaviors as they feel the need to control everything around them in a desperate attempt to hide their true desire to lose control. Behind every super macho man there is a loving nurturer who really just wants to relax and serve the woman he loves, making her happy in every way. But he can’t because he’s to afraid to let go.

What exactly is he afraid of?

Fear of being taken advantage of.

He is afraid that he will offer his love and support to a woman and she will accept his devotion but not appreciate it. He doesn’t want to give his love to someone who will then turn around and dump him after he has offered his best. He’s not a stone, he has feelings too.

This fear is natural to all humans and is perfectly acceptable. But it is a risk a man must take in order to experience the fullness of love. Allow me to settle your fears once and for all; a powerful woman will definitely take advantage of you. That is what you are there for, to enable her to have an advantage over any situation she may face.

You are her advantage in this harsh world. You are a team in business and play. You are her protector. You are the most useful person she will ever know and when you take a risk and allow yourself to be used and taken advantage of by the right woman, your support will improve both of your lives tremendously.

Don’t be afraid to be taken advantage of; that is the point of participating in a loving Female Led Relationship.

Fear of being publicly embarrassed.

I understand that most femdom and FLR websites paint a picture of a couple interacting in a manner where the woman cruelly dominates her husband, making him do things to please her sadistic side and ordering him around in front of others. Please understand that what is depicted on those sites is not exactly what you will experience. Just because you desire a FLR doesn’t mean you have to settle for a woman who wants to humiliate you publicly or have you behave as her personal butler. Humiliation and degradation practices are kinks and are not required for a successful FLR.

In fact, when you engage in a healthy, loving FLR you both decide how you will interact. Although your primary focus is to please and support her, if she loves you, she is doing the same thing in return. She is not your dominatrix, offering you punishment for your misdeeds, she is your wife, showing you just as much love as you show her. She respects you, your wishes and your manhood. Your manhood is not cut off because you decide to place her happiness as a priority. You still deserve respect and love.

Female Led Relationships are NOT about a woman snapping her fingers in public while the man bows down low to kiss her boots. FLR is not about the woman punking the man and making him crawl to her and beg for her forgiveness. Those are kinky practices that two people must agree on before they can be instituted into a relationship.

As a submissive man, your opinion matters in a Female Led Relationship. Your submission is a choice and unless you choose to be with a woman and you both decide that humiliation and degradation will be a part of your relationship, it won’t happen. If you are with a woman who treats you unfairly or without respect and you have not requested to be treated that way to satisfy your kinks, you should leave. It won’t make you less of a submissive man, it will make you a smart man. A smart submissive man knows his worth and he doesn’t worry about being shamed publicly because if he doesn’t want that, he knows the woman he loves will never allow that to happen. Just as much as you protect her, she protects you because she loves you.

Fear of being viewed as weak.

You might think you want to be a submissive man but the reality of it causes you to run away. You can’t look a woman into her eyes and follow all of her requests because you are afraid that she will lose respect for you if you continually give in to everything. Somewhere down the road you chose to believe that a man should put up a fight, stand his ground and make the decisions or a woman will hurt him and have too much power.

What’s so wrong with offering a woman too much power? What will it do to hurt you? You give her the power she needs to grow and impact the world and she offers you appreciation for being there for her. Sounds like a win to me.

Oh. Are you afraid that she won’t appreciate you or that maybe she will leave you if she has too much control and power? That is a road you have to travel so that you can find your true love.

A woman who tramples on a man who is devoted to her success will never be truly successful in this world because she is not happy with herself. She doesn’t value sincere love. She may be a dominant woman, but she is in no way capable of leading you and your family. You will be glad to find out she can not appreciate you and you will be smart to get rid of her.

When you meet the right woman and you take the bold risk to offer her complete control through your service and support, she will not only feel honored she will also feel empowered and thankful to you. She will feel like the luckiest woman in the world to have met a man who does not try to stand in the way of her success. You will then feel like the luckiest man in the world to have met a woman who allows you to be the genuine gentleman that you are, the Prince you imagine yourself to be. You will experience living your dream if you are willing to face your nightmare.

Don’t be afraid to be submissive. Your gift of who you are is a priceless offering to a smart and powerful woman. Show women who you are so that you can see who they are by their reaction to you. If she won’t appreciate your support, you are not required to change her mind or prove yourself, you have all the power to leave. Your submission is a choice. There is nothing wrong with you.

Fear of being submissive to the wrong woman.

You are a submissive man. You are not a doormat. You are not a puppy at the pound waiting for a woman to come by and choose you and you have no choice in the matter. You do have a choice. Your choice will be influenced by how much she appreciates you and is willing to respect who you are as a man.

Don’t torture yourself by wondering if this woman is the right one. Give it a chance. Love with everything you have. Give it your all. If she is not the one, there are divorce courts across the world that will help you take care of it. You don’t have to be unhappy, unless that is your kink.

If you would like to experience what it is like to be guided by a loving, powerful woman, enroll in our FLR Training For Men. You will also learn how to turn any relationship into a Female Led Relationship. Join us. Our next class is coming up soon!

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