Can You Have A Female Led Relationship Without Kink?
What is kink?
Kink is defined as unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies.
If unconventional is the benchmark for being labeled kink then all female led relationships should be considered kinky. But no, kink has more to do with sex than the interpersonal relationship between two people so let’s stay focused.
Kink is very often practiced in female led relationships simply because most people are introduced to female led relationships because of their interest in unconventional sexual practices, concepts and fantasies. People do not typically discover the formal concept of female led relationships outside of kink-related activities due to modern society’s disgusting standards of patriarchy. But that does not mean female led relationships do not exist outside of the kink and fetish circles.
Happy wife, happy life.
Have you ever heard that saying? It is very likely that someone you know has uttered it in reference to their wife. This man was probably telling you that he has a dominant wife and he makes it his priority to ensure that she is happy, which is the essence of a female led relationship.
Yes, you can have a female led relationship without kink and it can be quite fulfilling. In fact, I recently interviewed a woman who explained that she was submissive in the bedroom but outside of it, she was always dominant. In her relationship, she leads very quietly without any aggression or punishments because he is happy to see her smile so she rarely feels disappointment when she is with him. She says he is very much in tune with what she needs and she does not have to beg him to please her or offer instructions over and over again.
She says her relationship does not have a formal title but she knows that she leads. She hesitates to describe her husband as submissive because she believes submissive men have an inferiority complex and that is not appealing to her. But, she says that she is definitely the dominant one. She leads the way, he trusts her judgment and he allows her to be who she is without holding back. In fact, he loves it.