FemDom Mistress: The Black Onyx

I am spiritual not religious. My bible is a book called the Metu Neter which is Egyptian. The ultimate mission in life is evolution and finding the medium ground between negatives and positives, good and bad, love and hate.

I am the mother of one 8 year old daughter and I am a single parent residing in inner city Chicago. I lived a very sheltered life by my mom from time of orgin until my mothers death in my 30s. I was the proper, intelligent, respectful and perfect child who never got in trouble, never left home, and took care of my mother from the time she took ill from Cancer until the time she died. I am the youngest of 3 kids with a career in geriatrics. An art major back in college who got pregnant 5 classes away from my degree and didn’t finish. My dream is to own a resale shop where I decorate glass such as dishes, glasses, bottles and cups – as well as restore damaged, broken or old wood and bring it back to life.

A couple of years after my mom died I had already come to the conclusion that I needed and wanted to rebel due to a life of inexperience. I was tired of being the good girl and had learned earlier on that the “good girl” reputation was highly over rated. I had done everything right yet everything had still turned out wrong…so a lot of my life had been wasted doing what others had wanted but not what I wanted.

I researched the swing community for two years and got up the courage to put up a profile in a popular free and independent Chicago newspaper seeking m\f couples. I had liked boys and girls since 8th grade but my attraction to girls I kept under wraps due to a vanilla Christian value following family. Also I felt it safer to meet couples instead of single men from the net. It’s a code I still honor until this day. Within a week I began communicating with a couple and in three weeks we decided to meet to see what could happen. It was comfortable and the attraction was evident so we decided to get together the next weekend for a threesome. I liked it and Pandora’s box was opened.

Over the next 6 months I met with 3 or 4 other couples under the “fwb” fiasco that always seem to be a lie and really just a one night stand. I was starting to feel dirty and used and wanted to get out. A platonic internet friend from the lifestyle suggested I may be poly which was why I wasn’t enjoying swinging. I researched it and felt confident that committed relationships with more than one as Poly represents sounded EXACTLY like what I wanted and needed.

I began searching on the net for locals in that community. I found one of the most noted groups in the lifestyle but they were cheesy to me: name tags and board games during MeetUps….Eeeeeewwew. Yuck. After only three months I was ready to call that quits and I did. But I had remembered more than a few people from that group calling themselves kinksters and continuously referring to this website known as FET for people with fetishes. I had an interest in blindfolds and masquerade masks which was enough to urge to me to put up a profile.  When I visited Fet Life for the very first time the first picture to flash before my eyes was a woman naked and hogtied…and it totally turned me on.

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