FLR Training Class Update- Week 2
So, we just finished week 2 of Conquer Him’s very first Female Led Relationship training class and I want to offer an update so that you can become familiar with what is happening behind the scenes.
This first course is aimed at single men yet married men have signed up as students as well. The class is centered around LIVE weekly chats via web conference where I lead a discussion on a topic that is relevant to Female Led Relationships and the students can listen in live and chat back with me through voice or just typing.
The first week we discussed how to understand why you want to serve as a submissive man. This week our LIVE TALK was called Seeking a Female Led Relationship, where we discussed important issues that come up when a man is seeking a female partner.
A few of the topics we discussed:
- What should single men avoid doing when seeking a FLR?
- How can a man be more assertive in his pursuit of a FLR?
- How can a man find a woman to serve in a FLR?
- How should a man introduce his desire for an FLR?
- What are red flags that men should stay away from when meeting women with the intent of a FLR?
Then I posted the weekly assignments in our private Facebook group. One assignment was a writing assignment that aimed to explore personal strengths of each submissive man. I find that submissive men lack confidence at times which is strange to me because it takes a certain amount of strength to be submissive to another. With this assignment I wanted them to focus on their skills and assets that would make them valuable to a Goddess. I want them to see that even though the Goddess might be amazing and brilliant, they are equally as brilliant and will add so much value to a woman’s life.
Unfortunately not everyone completed this assignment, which bothered me a bit. The ones who did complete the assignment, did a marvelous job though.
Maybe the course is a bit time consuming with daily discussions, writing assignments and a weekly active challenge. I planned it so that each day you can learn a little more about Female Led Relationships, not much, just a little reminder, a nugget of information. I figure if you are paying for personal training, you should get your money’s worth. The daily discussions come right on your Facebook feed so that you can go about your daily life and join the discussion when you can.
We had a few lively discussions in the group. Here are a few examples.
Since there was a decline in participation this week among the men, I am wondering if group coaching is the best way to offer this information. I have no desire to waste people’s time or money. I want to deliver value, but I need to figure out which method is the best way.
Maybe it would be better to offer this information as an online course where people can peruse the information at their own pace instead of me holding their hand through the process, holding them accountable and offering feedback. The only drawback to offering an online course with access to pre-prepared videos and exercises would be there would be no access to chat with real couples living in successful Female Led Relationships, no personal attention to their specific issues and no daily bite-sized lessons to ponder.
From the feedback that I have been getting, the guys say that the course is going great. One student said he thought the course was “tremendous” but he thinks it was better designed for single men than married ones. Another student said that he appreciates the personal attention after we scheduled his one on one coaching session to discuss his concerns privately.
When each student signed up, they completed a general assessment so that I could set goals for them, things they wanted to learn. I incorporated all of these PAIN POINTS, as I like to call them, into the lesson plans and over the 4 weeks, I plan to hit them all without mentioning who mentioned them.
The next course is set to begin on July 28th. This time we will be training and coaching WOMEN who are in Female Led Relationships. Of course, based on the feedback from this group, I will make a few adjustments but I wonder if gender will make a difference in the experience.
Among daily discussions, the topics we will cover with the women will be:
- What does it mean to be a Goddess?
- Engaging His Submission
- Structure, Protocols and Punishments
- Common Issues Within Female Led Relationships
Stay tuned for next week to see what I am up to with the men and be sure to reach out to let me know which topics you want me to cover on the blog! I look forward to hearing from you!