The Gentleman’s Challenge: Task #3
We sincerely appreciate the men of Conquer Him, those who have devoted their time and attention to the empowerment of women. They embrace the lifestyle of empowering women through loving female led relationships.
We will now move forward in helping to spread the word and share this awesome concept to the masses by issuing The Gentleman’s Challenge in a series on Conquer Him.
Periodically I will introduce new challenges to the men of Conquer Him so that we can all take an active role in promoting Female Led Relationships.
If this is your first time reading this you can go through all of the challenges in order and leave a comment on each one letting us all know how you did.
The third challenge in this series is:
Five Days of Pink
Although we should all be aware that gender specific colors are a modern invention, socially we are conditioned to associate the color PINK with women. For this challenge all men are asked to wear the color PINK for 5 consecutive days. While wearing the color PINK you are to remind yourself that you are in service to women by being of service to at least one woman per day.
Here are a few suggestions for things you can wear:
- A pink shirt
- A pink cap
- Pink socks
- A pink handkerchief
Gentlemen, being of service to women means meeting their needs without hesitation. If you encounter a woman who needs help with her groceries, is walking through a doorway, is paying for her meal or is struggling to create a solution to a problem she is facing you should take the initative to assist her without expecting anything in return. If she asks you why you are being so helpful, reply with, “Women are Goddesses.” No further explanation is necessary.
I look forward to reading about your progress!
GOOD LUCK!
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Several years ago, I read of a challenge where a few women asked their husbands to wear pantyhose for a day. I wonder if that challenge could be updated for today’s world.
There are several firms that manufacture both pantyhose and bras designed for men, that fit well and are comfortable. I would like to see a nationwide day when men in female-led relationships wear both under their outerwear, perhaps in combination with a chastity device.
Why? Feminizing men is NOT a standard practice in Loving Led Relationships. That is kink for HIM. And that is femdom. A woman who is attracted to a LOVING FLR would not want to demean, degrade or diminish her partner in any way. That is sadism. That is not a common trait in a LOVING FLR.
Many men (I would say about 10%) enjoy the feeling of soft, clingy fabrics and consider wearing lingerie a liberating stress reliever. Many are ashamed to admit this, even to their own wives, because of the link society makes between the perception of feminine weakness, homosexuality, and promiscuity. There is no reason why this barrier should exist, since the concept of a sexual identity is multilayered and one desire or predisposition does not necessarily trigger any other.
In my own personal experience, it is very satisfying for a female to determine when and under what circumstances a man can enjoy this sensory experience. She can indeed use this as a great tool to guide her relationship in the direction she wants.
In my own case, feeling feminine helps me bond better with femininity. If you as a woman find a strategy or activity that works, run with it and make it your own.
I hear you and respect your opinion. If a man enjoys wearing feminine clothing then that is his desire. A Loving Female Led Relationship is about fulfilling the woman’s desires. If that is not a natural desire of hers, it should never be considered. He can choose to wear it at his own desire, he doesn’t need to have it be “required” by a woman.