The Gentleman’s Challenge: Task #2
We sincerely appreciate the men of Conquer Him, those who have devoted their time and attention to the empowerment of women. They embrace the lifestyle of empowering women through loving female led relationships.
We will now move forward in helping to spread the word and share this awesome concept to the masses by issuing The Gentleman’s Challenge in a series on Conquer Him.
Periodically I will introduce new challenges to the men of Conquer Him so that we can all take an active role in promoting Female Led Relationships.
If this is your first time reading this you can go through all of the challenges in order and leave a comment on each one letting us all know how you did.
The second challenge in this series is:
Make a Woman Smile Today
There is a woman in your path who is in need of a smile. You are in charge of bring a smile to the face of a woman today. It can be someone you already know, but have rarely taken the effort to be a source of happiness in her life. Today is the day that you will do something to make her smile.
Here are a few suggestions for what you can do:
- Compliment her beauty.
- Give her a gift card for coffee.
- Help her by taking care of a task for her.
- Ask her about her day and really listen.
- Wink and her and tell her she’s sexy.
Gentlemen, when you are done with your challenge, please leave a comment below to let us know what you did and how she reacted. You don’t have to leave her name or even mention this challenge to her. The only requirement for completing this challenge is to make a woman smile (or blush) and sharing the story of how you were able to cause that in the comments.
I look forward to reading about your progress!
GOOD LUCK!
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A woman I know vaguely from work entered the elevator with a grim look on her face. I told her “those beautiful eyes need to shine,” on impulse but she not only smiled, she looked me in the eyes and thanked me. They were shining.
Wonderful!
In today’s hyper-sensitive corporate culture, this might be a challenge best left out of the working world. If I told a woman I vaguely knew at work that “those beautiful eyes need to shine” I guarantee I would be having a conversation with my boss and Human Resources. Maybe my company is a bit uptight but they take harassment (or anything close to it) extremely seriously.
While I support the cause of the ‘Gentlemen’s Challenge’ a couple of the suggestions I disagree with.
Women should be appreciated for who they are, which is invaluable, not their outer shell.
I want very little to do with men who whistle or wink at strangers and tell Me that I am “sexy,” sometimes even if the tell Me I’m “beautiful” and certainly if they tell Me how I should behave.
They are all cheesy sex-pick-up lines that any old philanderer or entitled misogynist can easily use and self-respecting Women KNOW that.
I don’t want or need strange men’s validation that My physical aesthetic pleases them. I’ve received that BS most of My life and am long since fed up with it all! I do not take care of My health and appearance for their sake. I am not their possession, object or property.
I can receive heartfelt, meaningful compliments and encouragement from My devoted submissive life partner if I want such interactions.
You are correct Domina.
We men are here to
love and worship you.
Making you happy makes
us happy.
Since I am married, and love doing anything I can for my wife, these two gentleman’s challenges are a day to day thing in my life.
I will always help my wife even if there is something related to her work and I can give her a hand. I will always tell her how beautiful she is, and how lucky I am for having her in my life. I tell her how she changed me for the best, and how I wouldn’t have arrived where I am without her.
So I have talk about female lead marriage, if not with those words, to my wife. I also had brought a smile to her face by helping her.
Both challenges accomplished 😉
Juan Guevara
Never knew these encouraged messages empowered FLR. I have always thought is shat we were suppose to do when we encounter woman. Maybe I just look at all woman as beautiful and deserving of a respectful and encouraging man.