Handsome and Fit at 72, Seeking A FLR
I know, I know, I know that 72 is really old. But I am quite attractive and many women would be proud to be seen with me. I retired and moved from the Midwest to Tucson 10 years ago to care for my then infant granddaughter. Of course she is a 10-year-old now, with a 6-year-old sister. I still drive to their house every school day morning, feed them, and drive them to their charter school. After school, I drive them home, feed and tutor them. They are excelling in both academics and athletics. Their parents, my daughter and son-in-law, are both incredibly busy doctors, so by doing this, I relax their workload. Plus I enjoy doing it.
I hike or go to the gym almost daily. I also enjoy camping, and there are some spectacular camping areas in Arizona.
I came across FLRs on the internet. My reaction was “OMG (although I’m not really religious) this is the way I want and need it.” I admit that strong women intimidate me, yet I need a strong woman that I can look up to. Someone to give me guidance and someone whose life’s burdens I could ease by basically doing the role of a supportive housewife. I keep a clean house and I enjoy cooking. Oh, and I wouldn’t be a money drain on her.
I can’t say that the FLRs concept has really changed my every day life, except that now I know that it is “a thing.” It does give me hope that someday I can look at my strong woman and say, “I promise to love, honor, and obey you”.
The biggest benefit of an FLR is having the quality leadership of a strong woman. I will always defer to decision making. That doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t counter her ideas with different suggestions, but she’d make the final decision and I would comply.
The biggest challenge so far is lack of confidence in finding “her.”
Bragging doesn’t come easy to me, but honesty does. This is the honesty: I am really good-looking. That is not me hallucinating. Women much younger have told me so recently…not years ago. And not good looking for an old fart, but just good looking. A very young mother of my granddaughter’s schoolmate told me that I was better looking than her 31-year-old husband. I know she shouldn’t have said it…kinda crazy.
The perfect fit for me doesn’t have to be gorgeous. I prefer strength to beauty. Besides, I’d rather be the “pretty one”. I didn’t mention that my health is off-the-charts good.
Here’s my advice to women entertaining an FLR. I’m sure you remember from history that for a time women did not have the right to vote. The household had one vote. So if it were still that way, and I voted for Trump, our household has it Trump 1/ Clinton 0. But now days women have the right to vote, so make it Trump 1/ Clinton 1. Okay, in an FLR she can order me to vote for Clinton and I will obey her. Now our household vote count is Clinton 2/ Trump 0. So strong women have come from having no vote, to those women in an FLR who now have two votes.
I’m not into bondage or pain (okay, you can play rough with me). And I don’t like the terms Mistress and slave. If you get stern with me, I’ll gladly answer you “yes ma’am” or “yes sir” whichever she prefers. I want you to call me Larry, and I’ll call you by your name, if that’s okay.
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