Are You Hoping For A FLR Because You Want To Be Rejected and Restricted?
I understand that the common perception of a Female Led Relationship is rooted in kink, D/s and S&M. Through Conquer Him (With Love), LovingFLR.Com and FemaleLedSociety.Org I hope to change that.
A Female Led Relationship can be a relationship where the woman highly respects the man in her life, appreciates that he has wisdom and opinions and honors him for being supportive of her. A couple in a Female Led Relationship can have mutual respect where neither partner feels inferior to the other. A Female Led Relationship can be mutually beneficial and vanilla without the need for domination, control or harsh treatment.
A Female Led Relationship is simply a relationship where the woman’s happiness, satisfaction and progress is the priority.
Women connected to Conquer Him (With Love) are not seeking men who want to be puppets in the bedroom or when it comes to major decisions in their relationships.
Women connected to Conquer Him (With Love) value men with skills, diverse opinions and strength.
No woman connected to Conquer Him (With Love) wants a doormat who is willing to be kicked around, yelled at and treated less respectfully than an animal would be.
If you are a man who is connecting with Conquer Him (With Love) because you want a woman to degrade you, reject you and cause you pain because it delights you, you are in the wrong place.
Yes, we do offer Femdom FLR coaching for women who want a more male-centered FLR. because I am here to offer ALL women the support they need to create the relationships they want. But, the basis of the FLR Leadership training is inspired by the idea of creating a Loving FLR where the woman is with a man who respects her opinions, honors her and has skills and wisdom to aid in her progress in life. Women are seeking amazing men who are capable of being a hero in a FLR.
The point of a Loving FLR is to empower a woman so much that she believes she can achieve anything she dreams of in this world. The point of a Loving FLR is not to spend all of your time calculating how much time he has left before he can orgasm. Focusing on his kinks, his penis, his desire to be castigated and treated like he does not matter is a Femdom FLR.
Are there any men who are brilliant businessmen, loving husbands, smart decision makers and good natured who simply enjoy seeing a woman smile? Your goal is to give her the gift of FREEDOM, not burden her with your kinks and requests to be humiliated.
If you are hoping for a FLR because you want to be rejected and restricted and to be cast to the side in all matters, never have to think for yourself and to cast the burden of all decisions on a woman so that you can be free to be child-like you are not the type of man we celebrate on Conquer Him (With Love).
This platform celebrates intelligent men with a broad skill set who have achieved their dreams in life yet their ultimate dream is to stand next to a powerful woman and be the catalyst for her ascension to her version of greatness.
If you are not interested in that, if you lack the skills to empower a woman, if you do not like thinking for yourself, you are probably not a good fit for a Loving FLR. You should find a woman who is intent with serving you in a Femdom FLR instead. There’s nothing wrong with that at all. Just know who you are and express it honestly. You don’t want a Loving FLR, you want a FLR that serves YOU.
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Hi Queenie. i always look forward to your posts and like to read them. as far as this post is concerned i guess you’re right that a man who’s hoping for an FLR because he want to rejected and restricted does not qualify to be on conquer him (with love). but there is a thin line between a normal loving FLR and a femdom FLR and most often than not somewhere down the line it becomes very difficult to differentiate between the two. so it is my view that even if a man does want to be rejected or restricted he should not be left out of being a part of this loving FLR as he will gradually and ultimately understand the difference between the two. also the onus would be on his Wife or partner to teach him, train him and guide him along the path lovingly and authoritatively and he will surely learn from Her.
Hi. It’s not that he does not qualify to be here, a man who requires service from a woman to meet his masochistic kinks is simply not the type of man women in this specific audience want. Strong women want partners not someone they have to chastise consistently. It takes away from the time that could be spent achieving other goals. Every time I introduce this concept to women they think I am offering them a man child. I try to tell them that these men are heroes, not children. Yet I still receive mail from men describing their masochistic fantasties.
Hi thanks for your reply. as you know men will be men. so i think you should let them be.they really need some disciplining.
It makes me nervous to know that the kind of men I uphold as examples of what a Loving FLR should be like are extremely rare. Sometimes I wonder if I am wasting my time with this since most men who contact me are sharing fantasies of being abused and disrespected. I am introducing this concept of a Loving FLR to vanilla women and I do not want them to be scared off by men who believe the strength of a woman is equated to being brutal.
I don’t think that you should worry too much about that because the fact of the matter is that no Woman is so weak as to be scared off by men who believe the strength of a Woman is equated to being brutal. and if some of the men do believe that way it’s not your fault. you’re doing a damn good job. keep going at it.
It does not take a strong person to be brutal. I know women who can command a whole room with a call but firm voice.
I can see why woman would be off put by the concept of a submissive man. I personally have viewed a lot of sub men as nothing more then a man child who do nothing more than top from the bottom.
I do not see how you can love some one you are also rejecting.
FLR is like any relationship, it won’t work if there is not mutual respect between the people involved. I could never be a puppet nor would I be attracted to a woman who wants one.