How Can I Make My Wife Become More Dominant?
My question is, can a woman who loves my submission and chores I do for her, become a little more dominant? I love my wife and love doing things for her but find it extremely hard to keep up the chores etc if there is no guidance or retribution for what she sees as bad behavior on my part? I have gave her books in the past on female led relationships and femdom but she does not seem interested.
When you say you want a Loving FLR you are saying that you want your wife’s desires to be placed above everything else. If you have requested that your wife interact with you in a certain way and she has dismissed your request it means that your request is not a desire that she has. To pressure her about it only means that you are trying to lead the relationship. Is that what you really want? In order to make your wife become more dominant you have to dominate her.
You are actually asking for a femdom relationship where the focus is less on what the woman wants and more about meeting your need to be controlled and punished. MOST women don’t want to be with men that they have to punish. Pressuring her to service you by focusing more on your rewards and punishments indicates that you are not truly seeking a FLR. Plus, focusing on punishing you seems like more work for her.
If you want to offer her a spot in my FLR Coaching Program for Women I am willing to chat with her about the benefits of having a more involved FLR and how she can gain more dedicated service by indulging you in some of your kinks. I do understand the benefits for both of you but again, if she doesn’t want it, you should never try to press. The mere thought that your wife is happy and satisfied with your devotion to her should be satisfying enough.