Dear Queenie: I Want To Share My Wife
As a submissive male married to a Dominant Woman, I would be open to sharing her, giving her the option to be poly, while of course I remain forever monogamous. I think this would ensure she would never get bored with the marriage. How often do you see this in a FLR?
Let’s first rephrase your story so that I can tell you exactly what I felt when I read it.
As a submissive male married to a Dominant Woman, I would like to be her cuckhold. This would arouse me very much. How can I convince her to please me in this way?
Well Sam. To answer your original question- I have only personally interacted with one male who is in a relationship similar to what you describe. Most of the couples in FLRs that I have personally interacted with aren’t interested in multiple partners.
The one gentleman who does participate in the type of relationship you describe does so because his wife wants it that way. It was not something that he presented to her. It was something he had to accept and appreciate about her because it was HER DESIRE.
If she wanted this type of lifestyle she would already have it. Dominant women who like multiple partners- go out and enjoy multiple partners. You wouldn’t have to give her the option. Why are you giving options if you are submissive?
You and many other men want to be involved in such a relationship but in order to do that you have to find a woman who is into having multiple partners. You should look for this trait in a woman before you get married if it means that much to you.
Women don’t typically get married so they can sleep around. She got married because she thought you were the best man that came into her life. Why would you want to lead her to look elsewhere? Was she mistaken?
You are not looking for polyamory because polyamory is when three or more people are all involved with each other and you mentioned that you want to be monogamous. I think you are looking for a hot wife but you are trying to disguise your desire by saying it would benefit her.
If you truly want to ensure that your wife never becomes bored with your marriage, you don’t have to encourage her to sleep with other men. Why is that even a consideration in your mind? If your wife is bored, you don’t tell her to find excitement with someone else. You take initiative and organize surprises for her. You can create ways to deepen your submission to her.
If you want to create a fulfilling, HAPPY, Female Led Relationship then just make sure you are intentionally doing things to make her happy and honoring her choices.