How NOT to Introduce Your Wife To a Female Led Relationship
It’s around 10 p.m. as you both settle on the couch. Your arms are wrapped around her as she nestles into your embrace. Something is on the television but you can’t focus on it. You’re breathing heavily as your thoughts turn to the question you want to ask her.
“Can we have a Female Led Relationship?”
No, that’s too direct. You can’t say that to her. She’s going to think you’re weird. You are, kinda, but it’s a good kind of weird. You’re nervous and you don’t know what to say or if you should say anything. You’re enjoying this wonderful woman but you think it could be so much more intense and loving if only she knew that you wanted to serve her.
How do you say it? How do you introduce a Female Led Relationship to your wife without scaring her?
Well, let’s start with how NOT to introduce a Female Led Relationship.
Don’t show her Femdom Porn
You are going to freak her out. Femdom porn is all fantasy. If you think you are going to convince her to do that to you, and she’s actually a dominant or classy woman, you are crazy.
There are some elements of sexual domination that may appeal to her but introducing her to a Female Led Relationship by showing her porn is both crazy and stupid. It makes her feel as though you expect her to perform for you. No woman can perform like that all of the time and it will lead her to feel as though she is disappointing you.
Don’t call her Mistress
The moment you ask to call her Mistress you are giving her unnecessary pressure to figure out how to BE a Mistress.
Here’s the truth. Women in FLRs are not Mistresses. That is a femdom, BDSM term used during kinky interactions. Most women that I have met in FLRs like to be called by their names. Why? When you call a woman by her name and serve her in a FLR, she feels free to decide what SHE really wants from you instead of trying to play a role she expects she should.
She may never be able to figure out what a Mistress should require from her lover, but she can sure as hell decide that Laura likes breakfast in bed on Saturdays and to be left alone on Sunday mornings. An authentic FLR is when a woman asks for what she really wants and her partner delivers.
Don’t ask her to make all of the decisions all of the time
No woman in her right mind wants to make every single decision every single day of her life for you and for her. Who has the time or energy to do that? Placing the complete burden of daily decisions on her is not relieving stress it is adding to her stress which is the opposite of the point of a Female Led Relationship. You’re supposed to make her life easier, not stressful.
Don’t act out so that she has to control your behavior
You sneaky little boy. I know you’re thinking about misbehaving so you can induce a FLR from a woman. You want to push back against her wishes so that she will have to correct you over and over again. How manipulative and underhanded.
A Female Led Relationship is based on trust, love and a mutual agreement. She can’t participate in a FLR if she if she is being tricked into one.
I remember meeting a man who would make me upset on purpose so that I would have to correct or punish him, even when we were in public. After a while I became so stressed out that I stopped answering his calls. It is only now that I realize what he was doing. I roll my eyes every time I think about his dumb ass.
There are many ways to introduce your wife or partner to a loving Female Led Relationship or Female Led Marriage that will satisfy you both.
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