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7 Responses to “My First Experience with a Submissive Man

  • Wow. How sad that it took a turn for the worse when it was such a promising beginning.

    Frankly, I would have been nervous about a random stranger coming up to me and just asking if he can serve.

    And the instant focus on my feet would have been another strike right there.

  • 24.
    It is to be expected.
    Anyone and I do mean every under 26 year old male I have experienced has this petulant streak in them. I appreciate their eagerness but they still don’t understand how to think about other people’s needs.

    Inspiring story.

    • Yes, I believe this boy can mature into a ‘suitable’ submissive. ‘Suitable’, because like Ms.CrookedHalo, and am assuming this is what she meant, a fetish is not an ideal. For someone else it might be. With age perhaps, he might make a decent sub. I doubt the fetish will subside however.

      A very accurate assessment.

    • A very accurate assessment.

  • Yes, I believe this boy can mature into a ‘suitable’ submissive. ‘Suitable’, because like Ms.CrookedHalo, and am assuming this is what she meant, a fetish is not an ideal. For someone else it might be. With age perhaps, he might make a decent sub. I doubt the fetish will subside however.

  • I’m somewhat confused…
    I realize that he approached you, and let’s face it, weirdness aside and assuming he was decent looking it’s an almost irresistible offer. That said, were you looking for a slave or for something more meaningful?

    As I was reading I was thinking what a unique opportunity to train a perfect boyfriend/husband. I mean who wants a vapid slave-boy? But the chance to teach him that ‘love’ is a 2 way street and that he can ‘serve’ without being subservient is one that should never be missed. The foot focus was creepy but imagine the foot massages he could give if he really came to love you instead of a female object.
    I guess that’s the heart of it. You let him make you an object. On the surface different than the objectification we all despise but just underneath that surface exactly the same thing. His intent was not normal but I get the sense that it could be normalized in a healthy way with gentle guidance. Honestly it’s that concept that turns me off from official feminism. My mother led my father, most of the women I knew growing up led their husbands and none of the men I knew growing up struck me as submissives. Sorry, I want a real man who understands that power is not just physical or sexual and you missed the boat to show this young man exactly that.

    • I have no interest in being a man’s teacher, guiding or molding him into what I want. I am a teacher by profession. I am a very busy entrepreneur. I have no patience for a man who will not honor my choices. I would rather be single for the rest of my life than to have to follow behind a man and coax him into being considerate of my wishes.

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