She Invited A Younger Lover To Join Us
There is an aspect of our wonderful FLR (going on 7 years now) that now intrigues me and that I have discussed with my Lady quite a few times recently. Today I sought her permission to write about it. From the time of my first serious relationship with a strong woman (both of us were 20) I seem to have gone full circle.
I’m not sure how unique it is; perhaps not at all. The self-assured bright young woman I was madly in love with at the age of 20 had another boyfriend who she insisted get at least equal time. There was nothing secretive about this. Everybody we hung out with knew that she had two boyfriends. I’m not certain now what everybody thought about it, but life went on. We two guys knew each other quite well, and we got along fine. I don’t recall the subject of jealousy ever coming up, we were both so proud of our drop-dead gorgeous girlfriend. It was entirely her decision who she would spend the day and/or night with. We both accepted her decisions without protest. Although I’d never heard about the concept of a FLR at that age, it’s obvious to me now that she was definitely the leader of our 3-way relationship and I felt privileged to be a part of it. I have to say, even with all our combined lack of life experience, the situation did seem entirely natural. It was my initial insight into the potential glory of feminine power.
Moving the clock forward until about a year ago, my Lady informed me one evening that she was considering taking a lover younger than herself, which by definition meant way younger than me. She had yet to act on this but, indirectly through her work, opportunities had arisen. One of the things that defines our particular FLR, important to both of us, is that I remain 100% faithful to her, supportive of her and respectful of her wishes always. Discussion and debate is permitted beforehand but once her decision is made I am required to obey without hesitation or question. As an empowered woman, the leader and dominant force of our relationship, she is absolutely entitled to move our FLR forward however she sees fit, even if that means choosing a younger lover.
My initial concerns were to do with her safety and well-being. I didn’t know the young man she was considering. We talked about this a lot. They had gone on several coffee dates and a lunch date – he had proved to be respectful and courteous, always deferring to her wishes and, importantly, obeying her firm directive that sex would not occur until she was ready and she felt safe with him. Also, she had gotten to know him quite well through her work contacts, there were a lot of mutual acquaintances in her work environment and her feminine intuition was starting to tell her that he was a good man and that she should proceed, albeit slowly … which she did about 6 months ago.
I assured her that I would remain supportive. She felt it would benefit our FLR in many ways, which it has. We have never been closer.
Her lover is about 10 years younger than her and 20 years younger than me. They simply adore each other. He lives a short distance away and she usually drives out to his place whenever they wish to spend a night together, although she is starting to bring him home more and more now that we are all settling in to the arrangement. I’m required to use the spare room whenever she brings him home. I make them coffee and breakfast in the morning while she sits on his lap at the table, the two of them kissing like a couple of teenagers. I’ve never seen her so happy.
Interestingly, they have developed their own FLR. My Lady would not have continued the relationship otherwise beyond a brief infatuation stage. She assures me she had determined his potential as a true submissive long before she gave him the green light to sleep with her. He is proving eager to please her and is learning quickly, compensating for his lack of experience with enthusiasm. For her part, she is enjoying training him in the fine art of obedience to a Dominant Woman, relishing the opportunity to smooth off his rough edges.
Although we two males don’t see a lot of each other due largely to work commitments, my Lady wants the three of us to start spending more time together … at least socially. We do all enjoy each other’s company. He is a bright young guy, which is no surprise … she would hardly have chosen him otherwise. She would like us all to go out to dinner as a threesome, take walks up the beach holding her hands …simple stuff. The three of us don’t sleep together. It’s not that kind of arrangement. She has cleverly redefined our FLR to include an extra lover, making the relationship so much stronger through our three-way dynamic.
Our adoration and worship of her are there for all to see on her beautiful face. She glows.
It all fits so naturally. I feel like I’m 20 again. Full circle.
By Frankie Teardrop