Many men write in to express how much they yearn for a Powerful woman. They want to be controlled, dominated and made to uphold high standards both inside the bedroom and outside. When they express these types of yearnings I quickly remind them that what they are expressing is not a Female Led Relationship. They
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So you’re a lazy dominant. At least that is what men tell you. I am not sure if this happened to you but I was told this on a few occasions back when I first introduced myself into the BDSM community. When I joined the BDSM community I was under the impression that I would
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I was introduced to the concept of Female Led Relationships by my husband. I came to realize he has had a desire for FLR for quite some time but was not able to come right out and discuss it with me. He read lots of books and websites and would show me some of them
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Dear Queenie, I’m thinking of using a chastity device to improve my behavior towards women. I’m not into a relationship so pleasuring myself is a daily activity of mine and as known after my release my ‘submissiveness’ drops. I’ve kept myself from self pleasure before for a few days and it felt amazing. I honestly believe that
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Before I asked my Wife to marry me I gave her a CB-2000 male chastity device as a kind of a gag gift for Xmas. I gave it to her and I promised her that I would wear it when ever she wanted me to because her previous live-in boyfriend and husband before him both
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We are 7 days away from beginning our next FLR Training For Men. This training aims to teach men about the attitudes and preferences of dominant women as they seek Female Led Relationships. I have surveyed more than 35 self-expressed dominant women, both single and married. These women have shared their preferences, desires and pet peeves
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Why do I feel so submissive in the presence of a woman — especially towards my wife? She and I have been happily married for nearly 4 years now and it’s very much been a femdom marriage. In fact, she often brags to her friends how obedient I am to her. But WHY am I
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I wanted to express a few feelings and sentiments regarding the often contentious issues of ‘obedience’ and ‘polyandry’ within the context of a committed FLR. As it happens, both these ideas work well for us and have contributed to our mutual love and respect but they are not easy concepts to embrace. Nor are they
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Femdom (female domination) is a BDSM term that describes a relationship between a man and a woman that is based on hierarchy. The woman is the ultimate authority and enforcer of rules in her relationship. She expends a great amount of time and effort ensuring that her male partner is compliant with her wishes. Femdom
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We laugh a lot. I am not sure what you might expect from a training group on Female Led Relationships but during our weekly LIVE TALK discussions where we meet via video/audio conference calls, we talk about the issues we are facing in our relationships and we laugh- A LOT. I do a presentation on
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While I am sitting here absolutely FULL of laughter, I decided that I must share my thoughts about what is happening in our FLR Training for Women so far. Tonight was our first night, but I allowed the women to join the private Facebook group on Friday night. Over the weekend they completed their first
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The concept of FLR or Femdom lifestyle is still to catch up in India as you must be well aware, although things are slowly changing now and for the better i would say. but when i got married some years ago this beautiful form of lifestyle was not heard of. my marriage had been pretty
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I am very much intrigued by the new group of women who are enrolled in the FLR Training that begins at the end of this month. As the women register I ask them to complete a general assessment questionnaire so that I can find out what they want to learn. I then create lessons around their
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Are you a single and unattached male, hoping to learn more about female led relationships? Are you a married man whose partner has not yet come on board with understanding how much of a Goddess she is and you would like to learn how to guide her to her throne? Conquer Him is offering our
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Previously on Rachel & John’s Female Led Relationship Story: 3 Keys To A Happy Female Led Relationship Mindset When setting out to have a FLR, it is important to remember that this is all about you and your mate. What does the woman ultimately want? What does she want in her mate? Where might she want to
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Previously on Rachel’s Journey to FLR: I Am The Ultimate Decision Maker Love, Communication and Respect are Key As in other long-term relationships, the basis is love and respect. While someone looking onto our relationship may not understand that either are always in existence with some of our activities, all happenings are within a framework
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Rachel and John’s Female Led Relationship Story Rachel and John have been in a female led relationship for about half of the 11 years they have known one another. Their mutual interest in spanking brought them together originally. Practicing a female led relationship with elements of femdom are important for the pair because it allows
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READ PREVIOUS- I Was Born Into A Racist Family Choosing to be a Domme was one of the hardest decisions I ever made. It was one thing to just be a “kinkster” in the community, and I had accepted my fetishes very well because compared to some of them I had read about, my particular
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: I Am Not The Female Hitler A few days had passed since I had deactivated my Fet account. It was then that I remembered a lady that I had met who was a local Chicagoan. She sold candles that she handmade. I’d always loved candles and needed her email address
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: Meet The Black Onyx When I entered the BDSM community a few years ago I entered as a “kinkster”. I came from a very sheltered background so the idea of being controlled or controlling another didnt appeal to me. Sadists and Masochists were two dynamics I wanted absolutely nothing to
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