I Want a Bossy Woman Who Teases Me
I am a nice guy and my personality is one of a helpful nature. I have always tried to do little things to keep previous women of mine happy. I enjoy seeing a smile on my lady’s face but that is not the reason I want a Female Led Relationship.
The main driving force is sexual side, and the kink to boot! Yes, I said it…kink. Done right, a bossy woman drives me crazy, and I hope to one day find an intelligent, logical, bossy woman to call my own. I know. I know. That’s not what the women want to hear. They want to hear how happy it makes me to do the dishes and mop the floor because I love to clean that much! Well unfortunately, this is not the case. I would be more than happy to do it if there was a dominance game behind it all!
In the end, a relationship is a relationship whether it be vanilla, MLR, FLR, BDSM, straight, gay, etc; and all relationships are a give and take. Just because one is dominant and one is submissive does not mean they are a match. They should have similar interests and goals as in any relationship. My preference happens to be a dominant woman; one that is loving, caring trusting, smart, sweet, playful, and giving, but still knows how to put me in my place.
Let me start with describing the ideal bossy woman of my dreams. First, we start with everything needed for the basis of any relationship; things like common interests and compatible personalities. Most importantly, she needs to be intelligent and logical. I cannot submit to someone that bases their decisions otherwise. From there, we throw in the cute, sweet, playfulness that knows how to give orders. Essentially, she would need to be sweet and playful at heart, yet still be able to be strict and tough at the same time. I think that is the hardest part for women. I think sweet is inherent in them, and they feel bad if they ‘hurt’ their partner.
What women need to remember is that the ‘hurt’ is part of what we want. For example: I got an ex to do some tease and denial. When she first started, she would feel bad about leaving me hanging like that. It took her quite some time before she actually left me hanging and went to bed. Even then she felt bad. She did eventually get used to it and was able to deny me, but even then I think there was a small part of her that still felt bad for me.
As far as what can she do to have me wrapped around her finger, well, as I stated previously, it is the sexual side that drives my submission. That said, she would need to keep a sexual tension between us. It’s not much really, mostly just a few well-placed words here and there. Maybe a few well-placed touches also. She is constantly reminding me that she is in charge of my pleasure and she doesn’t give in often even though she acts like she might. Since she would have complete control of my buddy downstairs, I would be a puddle of a sexual mess waiting for a chance to explode. Now how can I say no to a sweetie who’s got me begging for a taste?
My FLR and tease and denial experience has been mostly in the bedroom. I have yet to find someone that understands my train of thought. It seems that I have a hard time finding that happy medium. From ads that I’ve seen, it seems like they are either over-the-top dominant or not enough. I’m sure I’ll find someone one day, just don’t know how long till that day comes.