What Happens When Two Submissive Men Meet?
Submissive men are almost unanimously soft and well spoken, slightly reserved of nature, demonstrating above average cognitive capabilities and tend to be well informed regarding general issues of the day … be it politics, sport, social developments or other “news of the day.” They are almost all – without exception – extremely well mannered when in interaction with Females [away and beyond the FLR space].
My first impressions after meeting a fellow submissive male is generally positive in nature. I have yet to meet a genuine and inherent male submissive who were/are outwardly demonstrative of his submissiveness. We obviously stroke a good cord [given our common denominator] and I still maintain a strong friendship [social] relationship with all the submissives i have met to date.
All submissives i know and have met were already involved in a FLR – i was thus aware that the guy is involved in a FLR.
It is extraordinary difficult – i believe – to identify a true sub male during general day to day life and daily interaction. This is partly due to the inherent secretive nature of male’s in general – they tend to not reveal their inner convictions and would rather demonstrate the common macho and strong guy image … general societal perceptions and expectations of the male to be alpha, leading and the “strong” one certainly play a major role also.
I have strong friendships with two particular submissive guys who are currently involved in FLR’s. Our conversations would normally cover sports, politics, business, and any other topic of mutual interests such as fitness, hunting etc.
Interestingly enough is the fact that our particular common denominator [strong inherent submissiveness and obedience to Female Owners] would not normally be a topic of conversation between us. It should however be noted that the nature and extent of interaction between us – when in the presence of our Superior Dominant Female Owners – changes completely! We are much more reserved, adhering to set behavioural protocol and would obviously allow the Female Owners to dictate the nature and extent of conversation … suiting Them rather than us.
General conversations with fellow subs are no different from such with vanilla males. Experiences and attitudes, opinions and developments are discussed as normal – lots of laughing, at times debates about issues, even arguments from time to time … the general characteristics of any interaction between good male friends or “mates.”
The issue of submissiveness as a male are from time to time discussed between us. We have at times philosophical conversations about the reason/s why we are strongly submissive of nature and simply drawn to powerful dominant Females. You will find that sub males would from time to time talk about this … why are they “different” from mainstream? Are there any psychological reasons for their “difference?” You will find lots of relevant speculation amongst them about the issue.
i was personally extremely “happy” when i met the first true sub male many years ago – particularly due to the fact that i could have benchmarked myself against him … when i realized this guy is a normal, manly, self confident bloke who not only achieved considerable success in his career but who demonstrate strong self belief and conviction regarding his sub attitude! Thus a normal guy having the same inner conviction than me … so i realized “paul you are not an outcast of society – you are not a freak of nature … look at this guy … he is a self confident, well mannered, physically well build intelligent guy … sharing the same convictions and attitude as me!” It truly made me feel good particularly during those early times when i decided to start living my submissive conviction and urge.
Obviously all my sub male friends demonstrate strong and easily identifiable submissive behaviour within the exclusive D/s environment … less so within a public environment yet still easily identifiable by the experienced eye of a fellow true sub male.
Conversations between male subs about our Dominant Female Owners – if it becomes a topic of mutual conversation – will be characterized by respect and seriousness. Never will references to Female Dominant Owners, Their attitudes, Their Persona’s etc. be light hearted, offensive or degrading of nature. From time to time we will share sub male experiences, developments within the D/s relationship, punishments, yet always in a serious and respectful tone!