Why Do Women Attract Dominant Men?
If you are seeking a Female Led Relationship because you are tired of attracting dominant men who put their needs first and do not consider you at all, you are not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, many women yearn for FLRs because they are the most healing relationships you may ever experience after a lifetime of devotion to someone only devoted to themselves.
You are a Goddess and you know it and you want to be treated like one. The only problem is, you continually attract dominant men and you do not know why. Why can’t you meet a nice submissive man who wants to adore you and worship you?
A woman I met had this problem. She has been single for a very long time. She dates often but still can not attract her Prince. She was clueless as to why she kept being approached by dominant men who wanted to mold her and subdue her. After getting to know her a bit I understood exactly why she kept going through this cycle of meeting dominant men and continually being disappointed.
She is indecisive.
When you are an indecisive person, you attract dominant people who like making decisions for others. When you can not immediately trust yourself to make a decision, you attract people who will make decisions for you, according to their own agendas.
Goddesses make decisions with confidence because they know what they want. They are not afraid to fail and they rarely view repercussions as mistakes because they know they can recover from anything that happens. An indecisive woman yearns for a man to help her and dominant men can spot one from a mile away.
She makes lots of excuses.
A submissive man wants a true leader, a Goddess who honors her commitments and does not blame others for her misgivings.
Dominant men are attracted to women who make excuses because they are willing to groom them and change them, holding them accountable for their actions. They are actually a perfect match.
She is too focused on finding love.
When a single woman walks into a room and scans it to see who is there, who is available and who is checking her out, she reeks of desperation and dominant men know they only have to show her a little attention and she will be falling all over herself in order to win them over.
A woman has every right to desire a submissive man because meeting the right one will change her entire life BUT being too focused on finding love is never a way to meet a good match.
Placing a personal ad on every dating site, only trying to meet men for the sake of a long term commitment instead of trying to make a friend and making yourself and everyone around you miserable because you feel lonely makes you appear desperate. Desperate women are prime targets for dominant men because they then become malleable an easy to access.
A woman should date as many men as she can at the same time, weeding them out by the way they treat her.
Never focus on only one man when you are dating because it gives him too much power over your focus and you then become disappointed if you realize he is not what you want. Keep multiple men in your rotation until one stands out among the rest. If you do not have multiple men in your life, continue to keep your options open.
When you are focused on one man you will be too busy trying to create a relationship, which will come off as being needy. Instead of trying your best to be prettier and more attractive to the men you meet, work on becoming AMAZING and an AMAZING man will find you.
How do you do that? Simple. Make all of your dreams come true.
During this process of becoming the best Goddess you can be, others who are equally as driven will become admirers of how you are creating your amazing life and want to join you in that process.
Leave the door open for love, not by trying to create the most phenomenal personal ad, but by being your most phenomenal self.
Practice your skills as a dominant on men you meet, even if they are not your type. During the Female Led Relationship Training course you will be taught how to recognize a submissive man. Go out and try out the tips and tests and then have fun playing with many different people. Even if the guy you are playing with does not match with your desires, you can make him a friend or business connection and he may have a cute cousin to introduce you to!
Become an amazing woman FIRST and then let love find you.
Learn how to let love find you by joining our Female Led Relationship Training program TODAY!
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I agree with your argument but women may be fighting thousands of years of biology. Women appear to be naturally hot wired to be attracted to dominant men. Their heads may be saying ‘go with the submissive man’ but their bodies are pulling them to the dominant ones. Evolution seems to be saying to them ‘seek the best genes for your offspring’ and a dominant man, because of his outward aggressiveness, appears to be the more capable of survival. An intelligent woman who is able to override her biological hot wiring with logic and reason in order to connect with a submissive man, who will make a more loving and reliable partner, will be in continual conflict with her inner urges to couple with that dominant man who is daring to flirt with her even in the presence of her submissive husband. For a woman, It is an irresistible attraction that is speaking to her from the ages. It’s not her fault, her head tells her it is poison for her soul, but her heart tells her it’s joy and pleasure. awaiting her. How does the woman ignore the bold and daring dominant male, who seems to her, in contrast to her steady, compliant, fawning husband, to be untamed, mysterious and unpredictable (a challenge?). Am I wrong? Unfortunately, it has been my observation that this is more true than not…note all the divorces with women leaving their husbands in record numbers today. Please set me straight, if you can, and let me believe in FLR without the doubts as to longevity and monogamy in these relationships..
You must have misunderstood the question. This post explores why some women tend to attract dominant men, not why women are attracted TO dominant men. These women would like submissive men to cater to them, but there is something about them that makes dominant men flock to them. I listed a few traits here.
Thanks for the response , but I did understand the question. An attractive woman will always attract dominant men, whether she’s sure of herself or not, it’s in the nature of these men to hunt desirable women. And it’s in the nature of women that her inner beacon of femininity, intentionally or not, sends out submissive signals to these men. The woman, if she truly wants a submissive man, has to become the huntress and seek this man out, approach him, control and compel him to her, because, conversely, if a man boldly and confidently approaches the woman first…chances are he’s dominant.
Well, the point of my post was to explore why some women only attract dominant men. You might have a point that dominant men are more likely to approach them.
But in the end, if a woman is attracted to a dominant man it is her choice. I am not here to convince her otherwise. If she attracts dominant men and does not want them, she needs to learn to overcome the obstacles/traits I mentioned. I am sure there are more, but this is a good list to start with.
You give the example of the woman who can’t understand why she continuously attracts dominant men and fails to attract submissive men. What I’m saying is that every woman, whether she is dominant or submissive or somewhere in between, will attract dominant men because that’s their nature…they’re predators and they hunt women (and I don’t mean in any illegal way). Truly submissive men, those who won’t try to top her from the bottom, may be attracted to her but they will not approach her to let her know, even if she is giving out those ‘vibes’ mentioned in your ‘list’. In fact, I submit that the more she appears strong, decisive, confident, etc. the more submissive men will keep their distance. She has to recognize them (I think we agree here) and let them know she’s interested and won’t reject them. If a submissive man has to approach a woman, he’s going to approach a more submissive type, not because he prefers that..he doesn’t, but because he feels he will be less likely to be rejected. As a result, too often submissive men end up with submissive women, and dominant women end up with dominant men, and no one’s truly happy. I’m not sure we have found any common ground here, I think we have, (we both want dominant women to find submissive men) but in any case I’m done.
I don’t think a relationship in which the woman is in total control will last long. I think they have to be equal as much as possible. Women instinctively usually want a dominant male but that doesn’t mean he has to be a control freak. That just means he makes the decisions when it comes to taking her out, deciding where to go, when to go etc. When it comes to deciding what kind of drapes to put up or other stuff most men are happy to let women make those decisions. But when it comes to romance I think not only do most women expect men to lead they prefer it.