Why Would a Goddess Choose Me?
One of the assignments in our Female Led Relationship training program was for the men to share reasons why a Goddess would choose them for a Female Led Relationship. This was the best response to that assignment. Although he is single right now, he wrote it as though he already had found his Goddess. He said he would use it as an affirmation.
Why did The Goddess choose me for a Female Led Relationship?
1. Attention ~ She chose me for all the love, respect and affection that I offer her. I treat her like royalty and I always make time to listen to her and make her priorities at least as important as mine. She knows that she is in the center of the relationship, and that I worship and obey her. I cheerfully let her shine and I encourage her to make herself number one, in good conscience, because she understands my feelings and she accepts my desire to submit to her. She can happily use this arrangement in any way she likes.
2. Resources ~ I willingly support my Goddess as much as I can, financially, so that she can use the money for her benefit and enjoyment. Whether I make a little or a lot, everything is at her disposal. My ideal situation is about making so much money that she never has to work, instead being totally free to do what she feels like doing. That could imply a part time job that she may enjoy and any creative project that she can pursue.
Even if she has a great career and makes a lot more money than I do, am I required to cease all financial control to her, because of her decision. I live within the means that she allows me while she freely allocates our joint resources however she desires. In a Female Led Relationship, a woman having control over the finances is only a natural by-product of her position of being the ultimate decision maker in all things.
3. Services ~ With her being free to distribute her time and resources exactly as she wishes, all other domestic responsibilities fall into my lap. Whatever task or chore she doesn’t feel like doing is automatically transferred to me. I eagerly learn all that I need to learn so that I can become more efficient in performing my responsibilities to meet her expectations. I am intuitive to her needs, and I learn to anticipate in advance anything she might want me to do. And I do make sure that it never requires any unnecessary effort on her part in keeping me busy.
4. Worthiness ~ She chose to be with me, because she loves me. She truly got to know me and she accepts and appreciates me. She feels that we can trust and complement each other and that we both find joy and liberation in the roles of our Female Led Relationship. We are both free to express ourselves honestly.
We share many personal interests and have a lot of views in common. Even if not in an FLR-mode, we are lovers, companions and best friends.
She is the kind of woman that benefits from being with me because she enjoys receiving a lot of attention, and she likes to get her own way with me. She is not shy in asking for what she wants, she is a woman who is very comfortable with decision making and who really makes me feel useful in helping her achieve her goals. This can be anything from running her own business, to personal development or any other pursuit that she may want to focus upon, knowing she gets all my support. She appreciates my efforts to enhance her life, and in seeing herself as a Goddess, she perceives all the opportunities to serve her as her gifts to me.
This is a summary of what I believe I contribute with in our Female Led Relationship. For me it is about being romantic, doing all the cute things, and also being devoted trough the mundane and the magical aspects of life.