He Is Willingly Submissive To My Power
I met Tom just before university and when the semester began I sought him out and by Christmas I owned him. I was attracted to him for many reasons including his rugged male body. I was studying computer science and he was in arts and when I graduated I moved Tom to another city. He encouraged me to pursue my career and made it clear that he valued me more than anything else and my happiness was paramount.
When we started a family it was logical that Tom should become a stay at home dad, he already did the cooking and housework and he had a special way with children. At first I felt selfish having most things my way but Tom reassured me that it was proper that I be in charge. He explained that even if he was larger and stronger he was submissive to my power and not just willing to be led but desired to be dominated by a woman. I already knew that I could provide a better life for us and that he would be happier following me.
When I changed jobs and started travelling around the continent he encouraged me even though it would mean hardship for him. I was able to reward him by controlling his life and how he behaved. I made him feel safe and secure and once he totally submitted he lost the doubt that plagues most men.
I have used methods to control and discipline him that some would find strange such as submitting him to a circle of women to suffer criticism or rewards and I have made him do things that he did not want to do. I have also made him admit to other people that he is submissive to me and it is his desire to be so. I have found that when a man is willing to submit in public it frees him of any guilt or doubt and allows him to embrace his role.
I would rather use positive enforcement but sometimes punishment is necessary. For punishment to work the man must realize he is being punished, what the offense is and what is expected from him. Remember men are often controlled by their genitals and are not always capable of being rational. Our life is not perfect but it has been good and Tom has submitted to more control and demands than we ever thought possible.