3 Responses to “Are You Afraid to Be Submissive to a Woman?

  • I had all of those fears when i first contemplated asking my Wife to be my Mistress Wife. The fears then transformed into challenges that I wanted to meet, then into challenges i knew i could handle, into the greatest marriage I could imagine.

    The only fear I have now is living a life without Mistress K.

  • Queenie, you advocate that men not let their fears stop them from trying FLR. But there are risks.

    One is total loss of control of the family’s finances. I would assume this is one of the first “rights” that the man sacrifices to his wife. In a perfect world, no big deal – they are a team.

    But what if things go south? Say she turns out to have sadistic tendancies and he is not open to being whipped, cuckhold or feminized? Queenie, you state that if he can’t tolerate it (stabbed in the neck), then he can always leave. Yet this is not so easy if he has no access to their money. Lack of funds is a main reason why abused women stay in their relationship . That is a concrete barrier to leaving.

    Related to this is the cliche that I think is more true than not and particularly applies here: “Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutely”. You may think you know your spouse. But anyone that is given such power could change, and likely not for the better.

    So there are risks to this lifestyle for men but not do much for women.

    • Loss of control of finances and total domination of the FLR is a man’s fantasy and not likely with a woman who is smart and loving. You are describing femdom relationships. A loving woman in a LOVING female led relationship would not intentionally hurt her partner in any way.

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