To really understand our relationship, you really need to look at where we started. I was in my second year at university, in a city away from my family and at a time of my life where I was on the back of a breakup of a long term relationship. I found that everything since
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As a woman in a Female Led Relationship you might be tempted to start feeling entitled or “spoiled” for lack of better words. I get this way sometimes. My husband normally shows no sign of being upset by it so it had become something I didn’t even realize. There was one incident where he brought home
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I always wondered why people pressure the man to be the leader of the relationship especially because of religion. What if the woman in the relationship is just better at leading? Why force it on the man if this is not something he does not have a desire to do? My husband made my happiness
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There is usually not a direct path to finding yourself in an Female Led Relationship. Most of us find these types of relationships following the ending of “vanilla” relationships. I find that many women express that when they were in “vanilla” relationships, they felt there were more tension, arguments, and significant competitiveness–almost a “one up/one
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As Lady Alpha Myan, I prefer the title of Lady to resemble the English Court system of respect afforded to the women. The Ladies in Waiting were expected to be suited to marry and to remain chaste until they did, or they were to wed as a way to gained political power or allies for
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There are many, many men who desire to have a woman who is fit to lead them in a relationship, but there are also men masquerading as advocates for female led relationships when they really want a rescuer. Do not get caught in the trap of being a mother to a man when you should
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Being from a traditional matriarchal family system, I was brought up with a mother who made all of the important decisions, and my father was often away for months at a time touring with the Navy. So, this would shape me to expect that I would do same. In retrospect, I see that I have
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Previously on Rachel & John’s Female Led Relationship Story: 3 Keys To A Happy Female Led Relationship Mindset When setting out to have a FLR, it is important to remember that this is all about you and your mate. What does the woman ultimately want? What does she want in her mate? Where might she want to
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Previously on Rachel’s Journey to FLR: I Am The Ultimate Decision Maker Love, Communication and Respect are Key As in other long-term relationships, the basis is love and respect. While someone looking onto our relationship may not understand that either are always in existence with some of our activities, all happenings are within a framework
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Rachel and John’s Female Led Relationship Story Rachel and John have been in a female led relationship for about half of the 11 years they have known one another. Their mutual interest in spanking brought them together originally. Practicing a female led relationship with elements of femdom are important for the pair because it allows
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