Dear Queenie, I have been married for over 25 years (almost 3 years separated, while in a divorce process). I was a “Stay-home-dad” (was interviewed by American Baby and a local news station and was written up by two major (Boston) newspapers and two local ones as well. I was the modern day “House Husband”, took
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Greetings Queenie! First of all I have to say that the site is great. Not only the articles but the design as well. The subject I’d really want to discuss is none other than Female Superiority/Led Relationships, but more specifically. I am submissive in nature and I love serving women. Should I serve all women? I’m
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I am involved in a Female Led Relationship that does not use chastity. I love self pleasure and would be miserable if I didn’t do it several times a day. That in no way diminishes the absolute love, adoration and respect that I have for my girlfriend and she does not see it as a
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With the next Female Led Training Group For Women just two weeks away, I am excited to share that the amazing Mistress Ivey will be joining the group! Mistress Ivey is the author of Becoming a Mistress blog where she has been dedicated to educating readers on how to create loving, Female Led Relationships for
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If you are seeking a Female Led Relationship because you are tired of attracting dominant men who put their needs first and do not consider you at all, you are not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, many women yearn for FLRs because they are the most healing relationships you may ever
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Dear Queenie, I fantasize about being a woman’s housework slave and being her foot slave giving her, her absolute pleasure. In your opinion, is this a healthy fantasy? I have recently started to fantasize about a woman locking me in chastity and making me beg her for my pleasure, is this a good thing for
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We’ve been married for seventeen years. When we met, in addition to her looks, I was attracted to her personality, intellect and strong moral compass. While she wasn’t overtly dominant, she was always strong willed and unbending about certain things, including our relationship. She expected and demanded certain behaviors from me. While I often reacted
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Our July 2015 Female Led Relationship Training Class is now officially over! Of the 4 students who participated, 3 submitted feedback on the course. Here are their unedited reviews along with my responses. What do you believe was the biggest benefit of participating? Student 1: Having had to reflect and write about my
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I have written about some of the major issues the women in our Female Led Training group presented during our 4 weeks together and now it is time to offer my own issues. Understanding that I am a student of FLR just like you, I organize these trainings because I am a teacher and gifted
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During Conquer Him Academy’s Female Led Relationship training course, women report being overwhelmed by the concept of a FLR. They say they feel pressured to conform to the ideals that their submissive partners present and it causes them to slack off in disappointment. One student reported that her husband consistently requested that she dress in
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When you sign up for the Conquer Him Academy’s Female Led Relationship Training Group For Women, you will be educated on the basic principles of a FLR and you will be challenged to become the best version of yourself. One of the issues that I encountered with a former student was the issue of being
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One of the challenges of running the Conquer Him Academy is facing real people with real situations and sometimes having to identify issues in their personalities that they did not realize they had. Over the next few days, I will share some of the issues that I attempted to coach the women through. Of the
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I’m 40 years old. I have been married for eight years to a younger man. Everything was wonderful for two months and then his libido decreased. He began to lose interest in me. When I found him watching porn and masturbating I was crushed. I told my older sister and she told me that the
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This woman is amazing. I am still in awe over our interaction last night. The ladies and I met online for our final conference call during this training last night and the guest speaker was Mistress Ivey, the blogger at Becoming A Mistress. When I tell you that we did not want to allow this
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I saw him online and I was impressed. He had created an ad looking for a submissive Black woman. He praised Black women as his preference above all others and from his photos he was sexy as hell. I reached out to him, clearly stating that I was not what he was looking for, yet
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When single women learn about the concept of Female Led Relationships many of them are afraid of it. Others immediately reject the concept because it will mean that they have to learn how to think for themselves and walk away from the “right path” of submission that was introduced to them during their youth. Then
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Why does this gender inequality still persist, and how can we stop it? I don’t have all the answers. And frankly, it’s sexist of you to think I do just because I’m a man. C’mon! Besides, it’s not my place to mansplain to you about the manstitutionalized manvantages built into Americman manciety. That would make
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We laugh a lot. I am not sure what you might expect from a training group on Female Led Relationships but during our weekly LIVE TALK discussions where we meet via video/audio conference calls, we talk about the issues we are facing in our relationships and we laugh- A LOT. I do a presentation on
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I recently had my first experience with a submissive male. Well, this wasn’t my actual FIRST experience. The first submissive male who approached me forgot to tell me he had a domme until 3 weeks after we started dating. That happened a little over 2 years ago. So this was my second time allowing a
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It was dark out when I met him. I was out enjoying the night breeze, taking a walk in my neighborhood. He said Hello and I smiled back. He called me Miss and asked for a moment of my time. I obliged, curious to hear what this smiling stranger had to say. “I love your
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