There is usually not a direct path to finding yourself in an Female Led Relationship. Most of us find these types of relationships following the ending of “vanilla” relationships. I find that many women express that when they were in “vanilla” relationships, they felt there were more tension, arguments, and significant competitiveness–almost a “one up/one
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There is an aspect of our wonderful FLR (going on 7 years now) that now intrigues me and that I have discussed with my Lady quite a few times recently. Today I sought her permission to write about it. From the time of my first serious relationship with a strong woman (both of us were 20) I seem to have
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Whenever a nervous husband or boyfriend unexpectedly asks the Lady in his life if she would consider allowing him to submit to her and she doesn’t blurt out a shocked, loud, unequivocal ‘No!’ there is good reason to be optimistic that the seeds of a beautiful Female Led Relationship have been planted. The Lady may
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As Lady Alpha Myan, I prefer the title of Lady to resemble the English Court system of respect afforded to the women. The Ladies in Waiting were expected to be suited to marry and to remain chaste until they did, or they were to wed as a way to gained political power or allies for
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There are many, many men who desire to have a woman who is fit to lead them in a relationship, but there are also men masquerading as advocates for female led relationships when they really want a rescuer. Do not get caught in the trap of being a mother to a man when you should
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Being from a traditional matriarchal family system, I was brought up with a mother who made all of the important decisions, and my father was often away for months at a time touring with the Navy. So, this would shape me to expect that I would do same. In retrospect, I see that I have
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Previously on Rachel & John’s Female Led Relationship Story: 3 Keys To A Happy Female Led Relationship Mindset When setting out to have a FLR, it is important to remember that this is all about you and your mate. What does the woman ultimately want? What does she want in her mate? Where might she want to
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Previously on Rachel’s Journey to FLR: I Am The Ultimate Decision Maker Love, Communication and Respect are Key As in other long-term relationships, the basis is love and respect. While someone looking onto our relationship may not understand that either are always in existence with some of our activities, all happenings are within a framework
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Rachel and John’s Female Led Relationship Story Rachel and John have been in a female led relationship for about half of the 11 years they have known one another. Their mutual interest in spanking brought them together originally. Practicing a female led relationship with elements of femdom are important for the pair because it allows
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READ PREVIOUS- I Was Born Into A Racist Family Choosing to be a Domme was one of the hardest decisions I ever made. It was one thing to just be a “kinkster” in the community, and I had accepted my fetishes very well because compared to some of them I had read about, my particular
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