The Gentleman’s Challenge: Task #4
We sincerely appreciate the men of Conquer Him, those who have devoted their time and attention to the empowerment of women. They embrace the lifestyle of empowering women through loving female led relationships.
We will now move forward in helping to spread the word and share this awesome concept to the masses by issuing The Gentleman’s Challenge in a series on Conquer Him.
Periodically I will introduce new challenges to the men of Conquer Him so that we can all take an active role in promoting Female Led Relationships.
If this is your first time reading this you can go through all of the challenges in order and leave a comment on each one letting us all know how you did.
The third challenge in this series is:
Elevate A Woman
Every man should have established himself to the point where he has some sort of authority in his workplace or in his community. For this task, each gentleman is required to target a woman that he has no romantic ties to and use his authority to help her reach a goal or achieve a new level without her knowledge.
- If you know that you are being considered for a promotion, suggest that she receive it instead.
- If you are in the position to hire a woman for your team and you meet one that is capable of doing the job, give her the job.
- If you are tasked with choosing a leader for an organization and a capable woman presents herself, choose her.
- If there is a situation where a woman’s decisions or abilities are being questioned and you are present make a strong vocal stance about her capabilities and back her up.
- Offer that single mother the bonus money she needs to pay for her books this semester.
- Call the corporate office of your favorite female waitress, nurse or engineer and offer kudos for a job well done and suggest they give her a raise.
- If you see a woman who is doing well for a cause that you also support, ask her what she needs and deliver on her request without questioning it.
How can you help a woman reach her next level in life without receiving any glory for yourself? Figure out a way to do it and do it. Leave a comment to let us know what you did so that we can celebrate with you.
This is nothing short of awesome!
We claim belief in, and support of woman’s authority, but are we really committed? Or is it just about creating jerk-off fodder, or pardon the pun, a knee-jerk reaction?
We have been called to task on this issue to elevate, and for each male, it is an opportunity as it calls into question our honor, integrity, and even honesty!
By being honest with ourselves, we now have a choice to either drop the claim and proceed to the porn sites, or put our speech and money to work for the women we believe in!
If we are truly making the choice to support a woman’s choice, I believe it is imperative that we remember to do just that–lift up her choice! In some recent posts, it was noted that sometimes a man might choose to do something that is really more about his own likes or dislikes. And, as a father, I can appreciate that. We do all we can to lift up, protect, and yes, elevate our young daughters–never is it sexual. And as our little girls mature into young women, we continue to elevate them. And like before, it is not sexually based. But at this point, unless you want to loose her, you must acquiesce–you must allow her to choose how, and to what degree your efforts are to be made in “lifting her up.” In like manner, women all around us are taking the lead by doing a fine job that most likely is superior to that which people expected from her male colleagues! So she really doesn’t “new” help from you or I. But I think we owe it to them, not because they are female, for which support feeds our fetushes. But instead because deep in our hearts, you and I know the world is a better place as a result of these women’s choices and efforts! So why would any man, much less a submissive man choose not to be a team player?
Personally, I do not believe we have a choice in this –these women are changing the world regardless of whether we choose to jump on board or not! But don’t you think, it may be a little faster, easier, and perhaps, even better if they receive the male support rhey are due? In my own case, I believe it is my destiny to lend my support. Moreover, if you truly wish to serve a woman or women, any of these “elevate” activities brings its own reward as you know you have been of service to her, and giving selflessly is a form of Goddess worship (SEVA), which of course is a whole different subject.
Thank you for posting these interesting challenges, they are a a helpful and motivational way for me to become come devoted and obedient to Women. Thank You again.
Thank you for this inspiration. I read it last night and again today at work. It motivated me to write up one of my employees for doing a great job. It also led me to think about contributing to the National Womens Law Center, the AAUW of other groups that advocate for the advancement of women and girls.
As a strong, confident males, I feel a responsibility to do all I can to elevate women and girls. Thank you for posting this reminder that inspired me to action today.
This challenge has truly resonated with me. If I am going to be a strong, confident male who truly supports the women in my life, I need to embrace feminism and the advancement of women in all aspects of society. After reading this again recently, I decided to put my money where my mouth is and purchase life memberships in the National Organization for Women and the American Association of University Women, two organizations that advance women economically, socially and politically. I enjoy the thought of helping all women be successful in their lives.