A Good Submissive Man Deserves Appreciation
As a woman in a Female Led Relationship you might be tempted to start feeling entitled or “spoiled” for lack of better words. I get this way sometimes. My husband normally shows no sign of being upset by it so it had become something I didn’t even realize.
There was one incident where he brought home some Subway sandwiches. He usually knows exactly how I want my sandwich and of course I’m a little picky. I forgot what he ordered on the sandwich but I just remember the sandwich was wrong and I was just like, “Oh, NOOOO… I don’t want this! How could you get this for me, you know I don’t eat this!?” Most people would have said, “Oh, well you better eat it anyway,” because it really wasn’t that serious but he went all the way back to Subway and got me another sandwich. He said, “Man, you are so spoiled.” That made me stop and think.
Ladies, we have to start appreciating our submissive men more and not taking his way of loving and supporting us for granted. This man is willing to do ANYTHING that will make you happy and satisfied and that takes a lot of courage and love in this day and age. He must not feel that he is being taken advantage of or used even if he gives you the opportunity to do that.
Female Led Relationships are such a beautiful thing in a world where the happiness and opinion of women is often a non-factor. i.e, James Brown’s hit song…
But, in my home it’s my world, thanks to my husband. My world would be NOTHING without the love, support and admiration from my husband. You have to find ways to show him appreciation. I buy my husband gifts a lot out of the blue and “just because.”
Sometimes it is a shirt with his favorite Rapper on it, a very bright LCD flashlight that he can use when working on his truck or his favorite food made when he comes home from work even though I feel he shouldn’t be eating that way. And don’t forget the occasional blow-job, just to show that you care and make him feel special. My husband also knows I will go to WAR for him.
Because I know that he is passive I am very protective of him. FLR’s are not about just kicking back and getting served. There is much responsibility on the part of the female to be the type of woman that can handle taking the lead. Men you have to make sure that the woman is ready for that type of responsibility as well. To learn more about this, I think you should sign up for the upcoming FLR training series. Even though it is targeted more towards the males, I think men and women would benefit and should participate!
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Great post! I’ll admit that sometimes I’m guilty of forgetting to appreciate my husband’s willingness to serve but then I look around me at all the women out there with no good, lazy bums, breathe a sigh of relief, and go home with a surprise for my husband just to show him that I do really care.
EXACTLY! If I’m willing to do anything for HER I think the least She can do is appreciate the things I bring to the relationship. Everything I do is to make HER life easier, to adore HER because I’m in awe of HER. Women should appreciate what the man brings to the relationship.