I Happily Took My Wife’s Last Name
I’m sure, that there are varying degrees of FLR’s and what one Woman prefers is going to be different from the next. But one thing is constant: Her needs and desires come first, always, without question ever… at least in my relationship.
When i met my wife She was already a fully realized, in control Goddess who had no real need for a man in Her world. But i was so drawn to Her power and mindset from the first time we met, i couldn’t let it go. Literally, i got on my knees, in public, and begged Her to go out on just one date with me. And guess what? She made me stay on my knees while She considered it, and even after She gave me Her answer (which was “yes, one date”), She wouldn’t let me rise up until She out of my view. She later told me that it was my first humility lesson, and that if i’d have failed, that was it.
Anyway, long story short, after many dates and pleadings and a very real, rigorous 2 years of dating and then 2 years living together, She informed me we would marry and that i would take Her name. No hyphens – i have Her name. That was 5 years ago.
This may sound weak to You, but my world would fall apart without Her. i would not know what to do if She wasn’t my everything. It sounds like She has much more control over my life than with other men in FLR’s, but that’s our way and it works for us both. There is plenty of love, and i live in accordance with Her rules and ways and there’s never any strife because as You say in Your video – She never makes a wrong decision or a bad one, She simply decides and leads, and i support and follow. 24/7 .
Just an fyi, i AM kept in a chastity device – not because She has any concern that i would even LOOK at another Woman in lust, but because She enjoys it. Her mother kept her father in one and She says it’s the only way it should be. She believes even the most loyal, dedicated males will stray because it’s in their DNA, and chastity puts the question to rest. i know She’s correct… look how many men cheat!
Well, my love calls and it’s time for some shoe shopping and i must go. Thank You and continue please to empower Goddesses everywhere!
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Such a truly lovely relationship!! Kudos to your Superior Wife and you!!
I was so pleased to read this as I did the same – I can’t say that my Mother was pleased; it’s difficult trying to explain that your life and your body is not your own anymore, it belongs to someone else and taking their name is an excellent way of showing the world how devoted you are.
My wife has always considered taking it one step further, and has thought long and hard about changing my Christian name as well. She likes the idea of something androgynous, or something that is a derivative of her own name. Of course, I will accept whatever is asked of me and be grateful for it, but again, it can be difficult where family is concerned.
You sound like a wonderful couple, your acknowledgement of her superiority is heartwarming
Yes what a beautiful relationship you are in. I aspire to be in one myself. It’s great to know these relationships do exist. Taking her name is ultimate submission. Why not all that matter is both of your happiness. I love the way you are accepting of her decisions knowing they are hers, therefore never wrong. And chastity you wear willingly as she desires.
So Hot!
My fiance and I have been in an FLR relationship during our two year engagement. We’ll be marrying this coming spring (2016). She’s Japanese and I’m a Blond, blue-eyed all American male. I’ll be taking her last name, and I know some will be confused because my Japanese name won’t fit my appearance, but that’s ok. I’m excited and looking forward to it.
I love this story. I just wonder, since he mentioned that men cheat, how he would feel if she had more than one man? She may not ever want that, but just wondering about his feelings if she did want a few other men too? Would he consider that ‘cheating’?
I would think that taking the wife’s last name is a condition of a Female Led Marriage. I would take my wife’s last name in a FLM.