My Husband Won’t Stop Topping From the Bottom
If you are a woman developing a Female Led Relationship after a man has requested it, it is very likely that your partner is topping from the bottom. Topping from the bottom is a term that describes when a man is demanding that the woman dominate or lead him the way he wants her to do it. I understand how frustrating this can be. Some women who are new to FLRs report feeling annoyed, disgusted and not good enough because their husband or partner will not stop demanding more kinks, discipline and punishments for their behavior.
After working with dozens of women who have faced this same situation, I created the Loving FLR Leadership Coaching Program. A Female Led Relationship is supposed to relieve the couple of the power struggle and the woman should feel supported and satisfied. When women report dissatisfaction it is usually because their partner is topping from the bottom.
I understand why he is topping from the bottom and how to stop it.
If you need help to stop this behavior you can join the Loving FLR Leadership Coaching Program and spend time with me privately. I will help you to understand why he is behaving this way, give you tools to help him stop this behavior and help relieve the frustration you feel about his topping from the bottom.
Topping from the bottom is selfish and degrades women in a Loving Female Led Relationship. You cannot be a leader if he makes demands for how you should lead.
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Interesting article. My wife and I have started on the FLR journey but she is having difficulty taking charge. I want to encourage her to do so and I try not to top from the bottom but she seems to need a push. She has expressed her desire verbally to me she wants to lead, and loves to do so in the bedroom, but admits she’s not sure how to do so. My regular job requires me to be an Alpha so I’ve developed that personality. I worry the Alpha side of me interferes when I am only trying to help her become more dominant in our relationship. When she wants me to do something, in or out of bed, she often phrases it as a question and less as a directive or instruction. How can I help her as the usually dominate male.
I guess your husband is not truly submissive if he tops from bottom.
You people are crazy, no woman should ever dominate the male. It should and can be a mutual type relationship fulfilling the desires of both working together,however biblically speaking,the man is the head of the household. Argue with God if you don’t like it !