Yesterday I wrote about my realization that men who identify as submissive are too demanding. This realization hit me as I sifted through the responses from a survey I sent out about the fears men have about developing Female Led Relationships. So many men reported that their biggest fear was not meeting a woman who
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I have spent 3 years studying, formulating and teaching the concepts behind developing a Loving Female Led Relationship and I am proud to witness this audience growing. After hundreds of posts related to this topic and the development of 2 coaching programs I decided to finally pull all of the wisdom I have gained about
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I am a submissive man, 51 yrs old. I live in the L.A. area close to Pasadena. For the longest time my submissive nature has been present, at times it has even been a problem. Sometimes teased for the shy aspect of it that I had, sometimes perhaps taken advantage of. In other words, it
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I recently joined Conquerhim.com. I joined because like many who are seeking a female led relationship they realize it’s easier said than done. I’m a regular guy leading a regular life. I have nothing against the traditional relationship and to be honest traditional relationships have a been major part of my life as I imagine
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I’m single. I make no secret of it. I run Conquer Him because I enjoy exploring this relationship dynamic and sharing what I have learned by interviewing and interacting with dozens of couples in Female Led Relationships as well as those who wish they had one. While I am immersed in this endeavor I still
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I met a young man today who described a relationship that excited and disappointed me. He told me that he met a woman online and he liked her immediately. As they began to get to know each other she told him that she wanted to move to Los Angeles and that he should move away
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Dear Queenie, I am a white man that recently moved to Dallas. During my third week at my apartment complex, a very tall, curvy black woman asked me if I would use my pickup to help her move some furniture. While helping her, she pinched me several times with her very long nails, but I
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We sincerely appreciate the men of Conquer Him, those who have devoted their time and attention to the empowerment of women. They embrace the lifestyle of empowering women through loving female led relationships. We will now move forward in helping to spread the word and share this awesome concept to the masses by issuing The
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I was in a vanilla type relationship with my Wife because my upbringing was such that I was always given to believe that the man should be leading the relationship. I too was always under the false notion that a man is happy with this arrangement. This was my male ego speaking but I was
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Before I answer this question I want to share with you why I am qualified to answer it. I am not in a Female Led Relationship at the moment and I was not in one when I created Conquer Him. I began studying Female Led Relationships objectively because I saw that people were interested in
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We sincerely appreciate the men of Conquer Him, those who have devoted their time and attention to the empowerment of women. They embrace the lifestyle of empowering women through loving female led relationships. We will now move forward in helping to spread the word and share this awesome concept to the masses by issuing The
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When you say you want a strong and independent woman who is Powerful and does not hesitate to ask for what she wants you are in for a treat, but are you really ready to handle such a woman? I recently met a man who was extremely smart. I offered him the opportunity to work
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While chatting with a friend today she shared with me that she had recently gone through a divorce. As she shared the details of the demise of her marriage I listened quietly and heard the solution behind her words. The man she had loved for many years seemed distant and unsure but he would not
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A masochist is a person who receives an emotional thrill from being physically or emotionally hurt. This type of person feels most comfortable when being criticized, emotionally abused, punished, beaten or threatened. If you are a Powerful woman and you are married to a masochist (or dating one) it can often be a bit daunting
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There’s a cool commercial by Tide that shows a Dad talking about how he has to take special care of his daughter’s clothes. “I use Tide to get out those week-old stains and Downy to get it fresh and soft. Since I’m the one who does the laundry, I let her play sheriff,” the Dad
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A recent OkCupid study found that although men are more likely to send the first message on the dating website than women, women who do send messages to men first are more likely to get a positive response. OkCupid Chief Product Officer Jimena Almendares said the company was surprised by the research project’s results. “There
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It’s my dream to become a matchmaker between Submissive Gentlemen and Powerful Women. I am cultivating a community of powerful women and successful female entrepreneurs and I want to introduce them to Conquer Him one day. But there are obstacles, of course. When I use the term ‘submissive man’ these vanilla women imagine that submissive
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We’ve been married for 31 years, but our FLR didn’t really begin until I retired. Since my Domme is much younger and still work, many of the household chores, such as cooking, grocery shopping, laundry, etc, fell on me to do, which I didn’t mind. That was more than 5 years ago and what has
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My wife Jane and I dated in college, broke up, and got back together nearly 20 years later. She was rather shy, though sexually adventurous, and was intrigued by my desire to be submissive to women. By the time we met up again, she had become a very successful executive. Nearly a decade into our
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