This week a member of our Conquer Him Community decided he wanted to leave. I then saw that he unsubscribed from the Conquer Him blog so I reached out to him to ask him what happened, could anything have been organized better and if he was okay. He shared with me that he had given
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Forced feminization is when a woman demands that her partner wear feminine style clothing and underwear. She may ask him to wear it underneath his regular clothing or ask him to wear it while doing tasks around the house. She may make him wear makeup or put bows in his hair. She may strip him
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It’s around 10 p.m. as you both settle on the couch. Your arms are wrapped around her as she nestles into your embrace. Something is on the television but you can’t focus on it. You’re breathing heavily as your thoughts turn to the question you want to ask her. “Can we have a Female Led
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Has a man you’ve been dating asked you to dominate him? Are you confused as to what that really means? Well, it could mean one of two things. He wants to be your submissive. In this case you’re being asked to place your needs before his and to allow him to cater to you and your
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So here we are just 5 days after I opened the Conquer Him Community social site and I have been sleeping in 2 hour intervals between long stretches of organizing, researching and planning. The volunteers who came on board to test the community’s functions are AWESOME! They went in and tried out everything, challenging me,
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If a man tells you that he wants to be your submissive, he is telling you that he wants you to have more control in the relationship. His idea of having control means giving him rules to follow and making sure he follows them. He is saying he wants to know there will be repercussions
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GREETINGS to all of the Goddesses and the men who adore us! I am very excited to announce that Conquer Him is expanding and now offering a social networking community for all readers of Conquer Him. Join us on the Conquer Him Community site where POWERFUL and dominant woman and INTELLIGENT and submissive men meet
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There are countless men who have secret fantasies of being submissive to a woman. Those secret desires often express themselves in overly egotistical behaviors as they feel the need to control everything around them in a desperate attempt to hide their true desire to lose control. Behind every super macho man there is a loving
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When you are a powerful woman, which means you are in control of yourself, you know what you want from life and for the most part you are experiencing it, there is no better choice for a partner than a submissive man. You don’t mind it that average women view submissive men as weak. You
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I, Queenie, am a very enterprising, creative and intelligent person but I don’t consider myself to be dominant. During my interactions with dominant people within the BDSM scene, I noticed that they become elated when controlling others and having others follow their wishes. It seems like dominance is one of their kinks. I personally have never
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When I first created Conquer Him, I intended to explore the concepts of female domination, female led relationships, female supremacy and female superiority. I chose these concepts due to a wildly popular blog post that I wrote many years back. Because I had not been an active participant in any of these relationship dynamics, I
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Do you need kinks to create a fulfilling Female Led Relationship? No. Kink and sex are not a part of the FOUNDATION of a FLR. Why? The foundation of FLR is always honoring a woman’s choices. FLR is designed to support a woman’s choices, her vision for her life and the relationship. Female domination (Femdom),
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I was recently sent a message by a submissive man on Fetlife who detailed a laundry list of ways he had fantasized about me humiliating and degrading him. While we had messaged quite a bit a few years back, we certainly did not have an ongoing relationship, or the type of relationship where I would
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Many women express frustration over how to move from being the one who carries the weight of the happiness in the relationship to being a woman who dominates a relationship with love. There are a few key ways to step out of the box that society has placed you in and start creating more fulfilling
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As I continue to engage with women through my FLR Leadership Coaching Program I am meeting many women who believe they are submissive because they enjoy catering to their families and taking care of them. While it is true that having a pleasant personality or a pleasing personality is common in many submissive people, it is
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We are 7 days away from beginning our next FLR Training For Men. This training aims to teach men about the attitudes and preferences of dominant women as they seek Female Led Relationships. I have surveyed more than 35 self-expressed dominant women, both single and married. These women have shared their preferences, desires and pet peeves
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Either I am becoming much better at predicting the future or I have just been through so many dating disasters that I am wiser. Either way, I want to pass along my wisdom to you, dear Goddess. There is not a single time that I venture out of my home and a man does not
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As I continue to coach women through Conquer Him’s FLR Training For Women, I am noticing a recurring theme that I feel is general enough to address publicly. Most women who are introduced to Female Led Relationships by their husbands or partners are told that they should become a Mistress or at least call themselves
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There are some women who crumble under pressure. There are others who seem to never sweat over the lows of life. There are even women who take a few tumbles before they understand this very important lesson but when they do, they become the women who become legends in their own right. The women of
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As I read through the surveys that I collected from dominant women I came across a question that made me smile. One anonymous woman asked: Who is the person running this site? Well, I know that I have mentioned a few of my dating stories here and there but I would like to take the
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