We’ve been married for seventeen years. When we met, in addition to her looks, I was attracted to her personality, intellect and strong moral compass. While she wasn’t overtly dominant, she was always strong willed and unbending about certain things, including our relationship. She expected and demanded certain behaviors from me. While I often reacted
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The spanking, that first one, was such a surprise. Her reason for giving me the spanking was because i hadn’t emptied the trash, but She had not asked me to empty it previously. In fact, She had cautioned me not to act too pussy whipped in front of Her Mom, who was staying with U/us.
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This happened in late November 2013, about a dozen years after i had my first spanking, the event that changed over a decades of playing with Femdom and FLR to really living it. The first 20 years together, i tried to pretend i was the stereotypical good husband. i helped out with domestic chores, but when
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The concept of FLR or Femdom lifestyle is still to catch up in India as you must be well aware, although things are slowly changing now and for the better i would say. but when i got married some years ago this beautiful form of lifestyle was not heard of. my marriage had been pretty
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As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed
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I believe that in a Female Led Relationship a man should always be willing to sacrifice for the Woman in his life. It’s no secret that people’s agendas and goals do not always match up perfectly in relationships. When this happens a man should be prepared to put the Woman before himself. Sacrifice for a Woman
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One of the assignments in our Female Led Relationship training program was for the men to share reasons why a Goddess would choose them for a Female Led Relationship. This was the best response to that assignment. Although he is single right now, he wrote it as though he already had found his Goddess. He
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My first impressions of Carrie were unimpressive. She seemed ok, but we shared no interests. If anything we were awkward around each other. We barely spoke except when I’d call over to see her flatmate. Her flatmate was a very good friend of mine. There wasn’t really any interaction beyond politeness until the Halloween party.
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Submissive men are almost unanimously soft and well spoken, slightly reserved of nature, demonstrating above average cognitive capabilities and tend to be well informed regarding general issues of the day … be it politics, sport, social developments or other “news of the day.” They are almost all – without exception – extremely well mannered when
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I am a 54 year old male divorcee, physically fit, “manly” [was a member of the military for 18 years], decisive of nature, bold and not by any imagination a “weakling” of any possible nature! my previous and only marriage did not work primarily due to my deeply rooted inherent submissiveness and service orientation to
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I think a lot of men are suited just fine for the leadership role. I am not one of those men. I am much more comfortable in the submissive role and ever since I realized this, my life has been better. I am the the youngest of 3 brothers. We grew up in a competitive household.
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I write this as a tribute to the Domina who I love with all my heart, who has expertly defined our FLR over the past 7 years and who has patiently trained me in the sublime art of servitude to a Dominant Woman, immersing me in her doctrine of loving female authority, believing that I can meet her standards
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There is an aspect of our wonderful FLR (going on 7 years now) that now intrigues me and that I have discussed with my Lady quite a few times recently. Today I sought her permission to write about it. From the time of my first serious relationship with a strong woman (both of us were 20) I seem to have
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Whenever a nervous husband or boyfriend unexpectedly asks the Lady in his life if she would consider allowing him to submit to her and she doesn’t blurt out a shocked, loud, unequivocal ‘No!’ there is good reason to be optimistic that the seeds of a beautiful Female Led Relationship have been planted. The Lady may
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READ PREVIOUS- I Was Born Into A Racist Family Choosing to be a Domme was one of the hardest decisions I ever made. It was one thing to just be a “kinkster” in the community, and I had accepted my fetishes very well because compared to some of them I had read about, my particular
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: I Am Not The Female Hitler A few days had passed since I had deactivated my Fet account. It was then that I remembered a lady that I had met who was a local Chicagoan. She sold candles that she handmade. I’d always loved candles and needed her email address
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Read PREVIOUS STORY. Twenty days after announcing my future departure from FET I logged in to see who had requested my email address so that they could continue to stay in contact with me after I was to delete my profile. But I couldn’t get to my profile. I couldnt even get to my feed
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: Meet The Black Onyx When I entered the BDSM community a few years ago I entered as a “kinkster”. I came from a very sheltered background so the idea of being controlled or controlling another didnt appeal to me. Sadists and Masochists were two dynamics I wanted absolutely nothing to
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Vanilla is a term that means the opposite of kinky. College Vanilla story: My introduction to kink was actually brought about because i was having so much trouble dating in the vanilla world. I have always been a Dominant personality. I do not follow well, though I can comfortably share authority. In college, when I
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I am spiritual not religious. My bible is a book called the Metu Neter which is Egyptian. The ultimate mission in life is evolution and finding the medium ground between negatives and positives, good and bad, love and hate. I am the mother of one 8 year old daughter and I am a single parent
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