I understand why men have the desire for a strong willed woman. He knows that if she chooses him, she’s not choosing him to appease him, she’s choosing him because he is exactly what she wants. Many men are chosen by strong and powerful women and they are excited because they know that she will
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I was introduced to the concept of Female Led Relationships by my husband. I came to realize he has had a desire for FLR for quite some time but was not able to come right out and discuss it with me. He read lots of books and websites and would show me some of them
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A recent OkCupid study found that although men are more likely to send the first message on the dating website than women, women who do send messages to men first are more likely to get a positive response. OkCupid Chief Product Officer Jimena Almendares said the company was surprised by the research project’s results. “There
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Female Led Relationships are real. We surveyed 17 real couples in Female Led Relationships to learn more about their attitudes and lifestyle. These statistics represent the average couple in a FLR. Here are the results from our March 2016 FLR Survey for couples. For full results VIEW HERE – FLR Couples Survey Results 3.18 If you
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One of the biggest obstacles that women face when presented with the option for a Female Led Relationship is their inability to overcome the taboo around the women being in control and asserting what she wants. This inability to grasp the concept of expressing her needs and desires for fear of hurting the man’s feelings
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Creating a successful and happy Female Led Relationship isn’t as difficult as you may think. Here are the 5 Tenets of a Successful Female Led Relationship. How does your FLR match up? 1. Always honor her choices and desires. It is very important that the man in the relationship remembers to always honor the choices
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We’ve been married for 31 years, but our FLR didn’t really begin until I retired. Since my Domme is much younger and still work, many of the household chores, such as cooking, grocery shopping, laundry, etc, fell on me to do, which I didn’t mind. That was more than 5 years ago and what has
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My wife Jane and I dated in college, broke up, and got back together nearly 20 years later. She was rather shy, though sexually adventurous, and was intrigued by my desire to be submissive to women. By the time we met up again, she had become a very successful executive. Nearly a decade into our
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It’s almost time to welcome a new class of women for the Becoming a Goddess in a Female Led Relationship Training Program. I’m sitting here smiling to myself as I think about all of the women who have come through my program in the past and how crazy and funny they all were. I wonder who
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In my quest to dissect, analyze and present the best principles of healthy, loving Female Led Relationships I have spent countless hours interviewing couples who are willing to share their personal stories. As I listen to them gush about how proud they are of their relationships or read their email interviews, I feel lucky to
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After quite a few startling comments and emails from readers I decided that I needed to make the focus of Conquer Him (With Love) more succinct and straight forward. In order to do this I created a poll to gauge the popular opinion of the readers. These are the results. As you can see, 81% of
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Dear Queenie, Hello I am a 15-year-old high school student male who has always been interested in a female led relationship ever since I was about 14. I find that your talk of an actual movement is very appealing because I don’t look at my feelings towards FLR as all sexual. In fact most of these
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Dear Queenie, As a submissive male married to a Dominant Woman, I would be open to sharing her, giving her the option to be poly, while of course I remain forever monogamous. I think this would ensure she would never get bored with the marriage. How often do you see this in a FLR? Sam
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The one thing I have learned is that every relationship is different – different Goddesses have different levels, wants and needs; god bless them all, they know better than we do, but it means that any advice given from a male point of view is subjective, so please take this as you will, and I
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The results of a recent study published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences demonstrates that there is no difference between male and female brains. If we choose to accept this information as truth we can then debunk the myth that women are superior to men. The research was led by Daphna Joel, a
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When a Powerful Woman connects with a Submissive Gentleman in a Female Led Relationship she is not merely meeting a man who will do her laundry and kiss her feet when requested. A Powerful Woman appreciates a Submissive Gentleman because he adds something to her life that is far more precious than service. A Submissive
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This week a member of our Conquer Him Community decided he wanted to leave. I then saw that he unsubscribed from the Conquer Him blog so I reached out to him to ask him what happened, could anything have been organized better and if he was okay. He shared with me that he had given
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Forced feminization is when a woman demands that her partner wear feminine style clothing and underwear. She may ask him to wear it underneath his regular clothing or ask him to wear it while doing tasks around the house. She may make him wear makeup or put bows in his hair. She may strip him
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It’s around 10 p.m. as you both settle on the couch. Your arms are wrapped around her as she nestles into your embrace. Something is on the television but you can’t focus on it. You’re breathing heavily as your thoughts turn to the question you want to ask her. “Can we have a Female Led
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