There are countless men who have secret fantasies of being submissive to a woman. Those secret desires often express themselves in overly egotistical behaviors as they feel the need to control everything around them in a desperate attempt to hide their true desire to lose control. Behind every super macho man there is a loving
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When you are a powerful woman, which means you are in control of yourself, you know what you want from life and for the most part you are experiencing it, there is no better choice for a partner than a submissive man. You don’t mind it that average women view submissive men as weak. You
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Dear Queenie, I’m thinking of using a chastity device to improve my behavior towards women. I’m not into a relationship so pleasuring myself is a daily activity of mine and as known after my release my ‘submissiveness’ drops. I’ve kept myself from self pleasure before for a few days and it felt amazing. I honestly believe that
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I’m sure, that there are varying degrees of FLR’s and what one Woman prefers is going to be different from the next. But one thing is constant: Her needs and desires come first, always, without question ever… at least in my relationship. When i met my wife She was already a fully realized, in control
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Our November 2015 Female Led Relationship Training Class For Men is now officially over! All 5 participants have been instructed on the foundation of what it means to become an ANCHOR in a Female Led Relationship. We met for 5 consecutive evenings, sharing wisdom, personal stories and encouragement. Of the men who actively participated via webcam
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I, Queenie, am a very enterprising, creative and intelligent person but I don’t consider myself to be dominant. During my interactions with dominant people within the BDSM scene, I noticed that they become elated when controlling others and having others follow their wishes. It seems like dominance is one of their kinks. I personally have never
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Dear Queenie, My name is Kevin, and I have recently realized both that: I have submissive tendencies; and I am in what you may call a female led relationship. I have been with my wife for seven years and our relationship has always been great. However recently I have come to realize more and more
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When I first created Conquer Him, I intended to explore the concepts of female domination, female led relationships, female supremacy and female superiority. I chose these concepts due to a wildly popular blog post that I wrote many years back. Because I had not been an active participant in any of these relationship dynamics, I
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Do you need kinks to create a fulfilling Female Led Relationship? No. Kink and sex are not a part of the FOUNDATION of a FLR. Why? The foundation of FLR is always honoring a woman’s choices. FLR is designed to support a woman’s choices, her vision for her life and the relationship. Female domination (Femdom),
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I was recently sent a message by a submissive man on Fetlife who detailed a laundry list of ways he had fantasized about me humiliating and degrading him. While we had messaged quite a bit a few years back, we certainly did not have an ongoing relationship, or the type of relationship where I would
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Many women express frustration over how to move from being the one who carries the weight of the happiness in the relationship to being a woman who dominates a relationship with love. There are a few key ways to step out of the box that society has placed you in and start creating more fulfilling
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She is powerful and she knows it. She loves her life and her smile shows it. She is an amazing woman who doesn’t really need anything but the thrill of having more excites her. She may head out for happy hour at her favorite restaurant just to people watch and mingle. As she sips a
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As I continue to engage with women through my FLR Leadership Coaching Program I am meeting many women who believe they are submissive because they enjoy catering to their families and taking care of them. While it is true that having a pleasant personality or a pleasing personality is common in many submissive people, it is
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Before I asked my Wife to marry me I gave her a CB-2000 male chastity device as a kind of a gag gift for Xmas. I gave it to her and I promised her that I would wear it when ever she wanted me to because her previous live-in boyfriend and husband before him both
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As you may know, I am addicted to watching HGTV’s various reality shows. Not only does it cater to the nesting part of my personality but it also allows me a peek into the relationships of various types of couples. I find myself trying to determine which couples are in Female Led Relationships, cheering for
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We are 7 days away from beginning our next FLR Training For Men. This training aims to teach men about the attitudes and preferences of dominant women as they seek Female Led Relationships. I have surveyed more than 35 self-expressed dominant women, both single and married. These women have shared their preferences, desires and pet peeves
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Either I am becoming much better at predicting the future or I have just been through so many dating disasters that I am wiser. Either way, I want to pass along my wisdom to you, dear Goddess. There is not a single time that I venture out of my home and a man does not
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As I continue to coach women through Conquer Him’s FLR Training For Women, I am noticing a recurring theme that I feel is general enough to address publicly. Most women who are introduced to Female Led Relationships by their husbands or partners are told that they should become a Mistress or at least call themselves
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There are some women who crumble under pressure. There are others who seem to never sweat over the lows of life. There are even women who take a few tumbles before they understand this very important lesson but when they do, they become the women who become legends in their own right. The women of
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Why do I feel so submissive in the presence of a woman — especially towards my wife? She and I have been happily married for nearly 4 years now and it’s very much been a femdom marriage. In fact, she often brags to her friends how obedient I am to her. But WHY am I
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