Dear Queenie: Should I Be Submissive to My Stepsister?
Greetings Queenie!
First of all I have to say that the site is great. Not only the articles but the design as well.
The subject I’d really want to discuss is none other than Female Superiority/Led Relationships, but more specifically. I am submissive in nature and I love serving women. Should I serve all women? I’m asking this question because here is the specific subject. I partially live with my stepsister. She is 25 and me 22. We live together for some years now to help each other with the finances(partially because she is currently in another city for her studies).
Should I still do the chores, buy the groceries, and make her life easier in general even when she’s here(which I would love to do)? When we were kids she was always telling me (more like ordering me) to tidy the beds, when I was playing video games I’d have to stop so she could watch her tv shows, I’d have to leave my bed and sleep on the couch when a friends of hers would stay for the night. Also we had a bunny as a pet and whenever it pooped inside the house it seemed like she expected me to clean it because even when she saw it, she never cleaned it. Sometimes I offered to bring her something to drink, which she always responded positively. These are some examples of what was happening back then.
I believe she knows I’m submissive although she might not be 100% sure due to these days because chores are 50-50, I’m not so subservient due to my character towards my friends. That is why I’d appreciate your opinion on if I should do like I used to and more.
I’m really looking for your reply.
Barney
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Dear Barney,
You seem so sweet. Thank you for the compliments on my work with Conquer Him. From reading your message you seem to be delighted to serve your sister and you should.
Why?
Female Led Relationships are not always about romance and sex. A Female Led Relationship is about supporting the woman in your life to make her life easier so that she can achieve her dreams. This woman does not have to be your wife or romantic partner. She can be your Mom or your boss or even your neighbor. If she is a woman and you would feel honored to serve her, you should boldly offer your service.
If more men were like you, this world would be a better place. By offering your service your sister will become empowered and learn that she should require the same behavior from all men. If you can do this for your sister, you will honor her as a woman and also receive satisfaction yourself. Go ahead and serve her with all of your heart for as long as it brings you joy to do so.
All my best wishes!
Queenie
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I agree. Your relationship with your stepsister needn’t be sexual to be an FLR. You both seem to recognize that you are comfortable and fulfilled by being a servant to her. She does you the honor of accepting your service. You can worship her without it becoming sexual.
I agree that FLR doesn’t need to be sexual. At work, I have 3 women who I manage. In addition to the usual day to day managerial interactions that we have, I try to go above and beyond to help them with their work. I recognize that their lives outside of work are important and busy (spouses, kids, etc) so I try to make their work lives just a little easier for them. I have no ulterior motives, I just enjoy seeing them a little happier at work. They are very appreciative and are that much more diligent in their work. It’s a positive self perpetuating loop. Win win for all of us (including the company we work for since our productivity and morale is so high).
Thanks for the information Queenie!