I write this as a tribute to the Domina who I love with all my heart, who has expertly defined our FLR over the past 7 years and who has patiently trained me in the sublime art of servitude to a Dominant Woman, immersing me in her doctrine of loving female authority, believing that I can meet her standards
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There is usually not a direct path to finding yourself in an Female Led Relationship. Most of us find these types of relationships following the ending of “vanilla” relationships. I find that many women express that when they were in “vanilla” relationships, they felt there were more tension, arguments, and significant competitiveness–almost a “one up/one
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There is an aspect of our wonderful FLR (going on 7 years now) that now intrigues me and that I have discussed with my Lady quite a few times recently. Today I sought her permission to write about it. From the time of my first serious relationship with a strong woman (both of us were 20) I seem to have
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Whenever a nervous husband or boyfriend unexpectedly asks the Lady in his life if she would consider allowing him to submit to her and she doesn’t blurt out a shocked, loud, unequivocal ‘No!’ there is good reason to be optimistic that the seeds of a beautiful Female Led Relationship have been planted. The Lady may
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As Lady Alpha Myan, I prefer the title of Lady to resemble the English Court system of respect afforded to the women. The Ladies in Waiting were expected to be suited to marry and to remain chaste until they did, or they were to wed as a way to gained political power or allies for
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There are many, many men who desire to have a woman who is fit to lead them in a relationship, but there are also men masquerading as advocates for female led relationships when they really want a rescuer. Do not get caught in the trap of being a mother to a man when you should
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Being from a traditional matriarchal family system, I was brought up with a mother who made all of the important decisions, and my father was often away for months at a time touring with the Navy. So, this would shape me to expect that I would do same. In retrospect, I see that I have
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Rachel and John’s Female Led Relationship Story Rachel and John have been in a female led relationship for about half of the 11 years they have known one another. Their mutual interest in spanking brought them together originally. Practicing a female led relationship with elements of femdom are important for the pair because it allows
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READ PREVIOUS- I Was Born Into A Racist Family Choosing to be a Domme was one of the hardest decisions I ever made. It was one thing to just be a “kinkster” in the community, and I had accepted my fetishes very well because compared to some of them I had read about, my particular
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: I Am Not The Female Hitler A few days had passed since I had deactivated my Fet account. It was then that I remembered a lady that I had met who was a local Chicagoan. She sold candles that she handmade. I’d always loved candles and needed her email address
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Read PREVIOUS STORY. Twenty days after announcing my future departure from FET I logged in to see who had requested my email address so that they could continue to stay in contact with me after I was to delete my profile. But I couldn’t get to my profile. I couldnt even get to my feed
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PREVIOUSLY FROM THE BLACK ONYX: Meet The Black Onyx When I entered the BDSM community a few years ago I entered as a “kinkster”. I came from a very sheltered background so the idea of being controlled or controlling another didnt appeal to me. Sadists and Masochists were two dynamics I wanted absolutely nothing to
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Vanilla is a term that means the opposite of kinky. College Vanilla story: My introduction to kink was actually brought about because i was having so much trouble dating in the vanilla world. I have always been a Dominant personality. I do not follow well, though I can comfortably share authority. In college, when I
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ConquerHim: Let’s start with the basics. Who are you? Mistress Lorelei: Like the old A/S/L? Does anybody still use that? I’m Lorelei Powers. I’m in my 50s, and I’m lucky enough to live in the San Francisco Bay Area. Professionally, I’m a freelance writer and editor; I also create and maintain some web sites. Oh,
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I am spiritual not religious. My bible is a book called the Metu Neter which is Egyptian. The ultimate mission in life is evolution and finding the medium ground between negatives and positives, good and bad, love and hate. I am the mother of one 8 year old daughter and I am a single parent
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I have been dominant my entire life. I only found out that I was “A” dominant when I went to college. I was 18 at the time, and my neighbor in the dorms was a lifestyle dominant several years older than I was. While I was very open, and she and I talked a lot
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I Am a Lifestyle Dom. I came to this world a bit late in life (long story as to how I managed to repress my interests and then find them again). But I was lucky enough to find a wonderful community in the D/s forum on Compuserve that had been started by Gloria Brame, one
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Rebelle is a southern born and raised rebel of the ideal “Southern Belle”. Having grown up with the stereotypes, I tried very hard to conform into an obedient submissive, but it was not to be. As a confident and intelligent woman I was never able to swallow the concept of smiling innocently while knowingly be
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Female supremacy. Sounds like a scary term for radical feminists who hate men. Nothing could be further from the truth according to Elise Sutton, the often debated and elusive firecracker of the BDSM world who teaches couples how to actively engage in a dynamic she calls- Female Led Relationships. What is a female led relationship?
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A dominant woman can not be easily recognized by a checklist. She appears in a variety of skin tones, dress sizes and career choices. A dominant woman is most recognizable by her ability to make decisions for herself without the approval or opinions of others. This kind of confidence is rare in a world that
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