If you are a woman developing a Female Led Relationship after a man has requested it, it is very likely that your partner is topping from the bottom. Topping from the bottom is a term that describes when a man is demanding that the woman dominate or lead him the way he wants her to
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Yesterday I wrote about my realization that men who identify as submissive are too demanding. This realization hit me as I sifted through the responses from a survey I sent out about the fears men have about developing Female Led Relationships. So many men reported that their biggest fear was not meeting a woman who
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A few days ago I posted a link to a survey asking men about their biggest fear about developing a Female Led Relationship. As the submissions poured in my spirits sank and I felt awful. These anonymous submissions were very important in my quest for a better understanding of why it seems so difficult for
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I’m single. I make no secret of it. I run Conquer Him because I enjoy exploring this relationship dynamic and sharing what I have learned by interviewing and interacting with dozens of couples in Female Led Relationships as well as those who wish they had one. While I am immersed in this endeavor I still
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I met a young man today who described a relationship that excited and disappointed me. He told me that he met a woman online and he liked her immediately. As they began to get to know each other she told him that she wanted to move to Los Angeles and that he should move away
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Hey guys! There’s been a lot going on with me lately and I want to clue you in on the developments. Many of you know me as Queenie but my real name is Te-Erika. I own and manage Conquer Him (With Love) as well as the sister sites and this is my full-time career. How
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Let’s begin by defining what a kink is. According to Wikipedia: In human sexuality, kinkiness is any unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. The women and men of Conquer Him must understand that all conventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies were selected by average humans and became socially constructed sexual norms. This means, someone made
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Is a whip really necessary? To said question, our whole FLR Community would respond with a resounding, “To each, Her own.” Meaning, what they do in their relationship is up to each individual couple. Of course it is. But I would argue that in a FLR a whip is necessary. If you have a FLR,
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Like the kid popping a child’s balloon, we delight to hit those we love with reality. “Come on, get real!” Pop goes their balloon, as we savor that fallen look of resignation on their face. Ah yes, nothing like suddenly hitting someone with a cold bucket of reality. The twisted joy of taking the fun
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Conquer Him (With Love) was created in July 2014 to bring powerful women and the men who adore them together in romantic bliss according to our concept of Loving Female Led Relationships. As the topic of Female Led Relationships was explored and dissected, many readers reached out to suggest various methods to aid in understanding
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During the FLR Leadership Coaching Program For Women I get this question a lot: Are Female Led Relationships based on a game that the couple engages in? Unfortunately the answer is not cut and dry. I answer this question based on the woman who presents it. No man wants a FLR to be a game. Men
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If you’re a single woman and you’re looking for a Female Led Relationship you may be tempted to try to mold a man into what you want. It’s possible, but it takes too much work if you’re already a busy woman. Don’t choose a man who acts like he is a challenge; he wants you
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I understand that the common perception of a Female Led Relationship is rooted in kink, D/s and S&M. Through Conquer Him (With Love), LovingFLR.Com and FemaleLedSociety.Org I hope to change that. A Female Led Relationship can be a relationship where the woman highly respects the man in her life, appreciates that he has wisdom and
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Before I answer this question I want to share with you why I am qualified to answer it. I am not in a Female Led Relationship at the moment and I was not in one when I created Conquer Him. I began studying Female Led Relationships objectively because I saw that people were interested in
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I am a nice guy and my personality is one of a helpful nature. I have always tried to do little things to keep previous women of mine happy. I enjoy seeing a smile on my lady’s face but that is not the reason I want a Female Led Relationship. The main driving force is
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There is an old saying- Women should be seen and not heard. This is a disgusting adage that aims to disempower women, convincing them that raising their voices and expressing their beliefs and desires is not becoming. Don’t believe it! In fact, Women MUST be seen and heard in order for our society to advance
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Today is a rough day for me. It’s Father’s Day. Usually I will bite my lip and smile to myself as I call up my stepfather to wish him a Happy Father’s Day, knowing that this gesture will make my mother smile. Today I didn’t do that. I feel guilty about it as each moment
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Take a look at this video. It shares the story of Nina Peterson who is known as one of the most successful ‘sugar babies’ in recent history. A sugar baby is a woman who exclusively dates older men who are wealthy. In exchange for her time and pleasure he offers her a generous financial allowance
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Whether you can tell or not, there is so much LOVE for the concept of loving Female Led Relationships. I can tell by looking at the traffic that this site receives, the many emails I get from readers, the number of people who join my FLR Coaching Classes and the appreciation I get on social
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When you say you want a strong and independent woman who is Powerful and does not hesitate to ask for what she wants you are in for a treat, but are you really ready to handle such a woman? I recently met a man who was extremely smart. I offered him the opportunity to work
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