I understand that the common perception of a Female Led Relationship is rooted in kink, D/s and S&M. Through Conquer Him (With Love), LovingFLR.Com and FemaleLedSociety.Org I hope to change that. A Female Led Relationship can be a relationship where the woman highly respects the man in her life, appreciates that he has wisdom and
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Before I answer this question I want to share with you why I am qualified to answer it. I am not in a Female Led Relationship at the moment and I was not in one when I created Conquer Him. I began studying Female Led Relationships objectively because I saw that people were interested in
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We meet while at Grad School in Cambridge Massachusetts – from the beginning she was amazing – I saw her across an auditorium at our orientation the first day of classes. It was for me love at first sight! For the first couple of terms She would be nice to me but her friends told
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It’s a personal quest of mine to introduce the concept of Female Led Relationships to the general masses. To put it plainly, I want all women to understand that they can have a Female Led Relationship even if they are not into BDSM and kink. That is what this site is about. Typically, the lessons
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It’s my dream to become a matchmaker between Submissive Gentlemen and Powerful Women. I am cultivating a community of powerful women and successful female entrepreneurs and I want to introduce them to Conquer Him one day. But there are obstacles, of course. When I use the term ‘submissive man’ these vanilla women imagine that submissive
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We’ve been married for 31 years, but our FLR didn’t really begin until I retired. Since my Domme is much younger and still work, many of the household chores, such as cooking, grocery shopping, laundry, etc, fell on me to do, which I didn’t mind. That was more than 5 years ago and what has
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I requested my wife that she allow me to make a donation to ConquerHim because of the effect you have had on our relationship. I ran across ConquerHim on Youtube, while looking for sites with dominant women. I watched several of the Queenie videos and they immediately struck a cord. I always felt that I
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Dear Queenie, I’m thinking of using a chastity device to improve my behavior towards women. I’m not into a relationship so pleasuring myself is a daily activity of mine and as known after my release my ‘submissiveness’ drops. I’ve kept myself from self pleasure before for a few days and it felt amazing. I honestly believe that
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I’m sure, that there are varying degrees of FLR’s and what one Woman prefers is going to be different from the next. But one thing is constant: Her needs and desires come first, always, without question ever… at least in my relationship. When i met my wife She was already a fully realized, in control
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When I first created Conquer Him, I intended to explore the concepts of female domination, female led relationships, female supremacy and female superiority. I chose these concepts due to a wildly popular blog post that I wrote many years back. Because I had not been an active participant in any of these relationship dynamics, I
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I was recently sent a message by a submissive man on Fetlife who detailed a laundry list of ways he had fantasized about me humiliating and degrading him. While we had messaged quite a bit a few years back, we certainly did not have an ongoing relationship, or the type of relationship where I would
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Before I asked my Wife to marry me I gave her a CB-2000 male chastity device as a kind of a gag gift for Xmas. I gave it to her and I promised her that I would wear it when ever she wanted me to because her previous live-in boyfriend and husband before him both
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Actor Terry Crews said he and his wife Rebecca King-Crews used sexual chastity to revive their marriage. In an interview with HuffPost Live Crews said that his marriage to his wife of 25 years was “on the rocks” so they spent 90 days abstaining from all sexual activities. Instead, the couple talked and cuddled. “I
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I suppose that I have always fantasized about being with a dominant woman, but it was about 5 years ago that I started to read about FLR and to begin to understand that there was much more to it. A few years back, I did hire a pro domme for a couple of 3 hour sessions. I liked being submissive but
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As I continue to coordinate Conquer Him’s Female Led Relationship Training For Women, the ladies who participate are free to share every concern they have while structuring their FLRs. There are a few issues that most women seem to mention but there is one that stands out because it directly impacts the basic ingredient of
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People may argue about whether or not a Female Led Relationship needs to use chastity control to work well. They may also debate about whether or not the man is inferior to the woman in the relationship. Of all the debates and options all couples may encounter while structuring their Female Led Relationship there is
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I am involved in a Female Led Relationship that does not use chastity. I love self pleasure and would be miserable if I didn’t do it several times a day. That in no way diminishes the absolute love, adoration and respect that I have for my girlfriend and she does not see it as a
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Dear Queenie, I fantasize about being a woman’s housework slave and being her foot slave giving her, her absolute pleasure. In your opinion, is this a healthy fantasy? I have recently started to fantasize about a woman locking me in chastity and making me beg her for my pleasure, is this a good thing for
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One of the challenges of running the Conquer Him Academy is facing real people with real situations and sometimes having to identify issues in their personalities that they did not realize they had. Over the next few days, I will share some of the issues that I attempted to coach the women through. Of the
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I’m 40 years old. I have been married for eight years to a younger man. Everything was wonderful for two months and then his libido decreased. He began to lose interest in me. When I found him watching porn and masturbating I was crushed. I told my older sister and she told me that the
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