I’m 40 years old. I have been married for eight years to a younger man. Everything was wonderful for two months and then his libido decreased. He began to lose interest in me. When I found him watching porn and masturbating I was crushed. I told my older sister and she told me that the
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This woman is amazing. I am still in awe over our interaction last night. The ladies and I met online for our final conference call during this training last night and the guest speaker was Mistress Ivey, the blogger at Becoming A Mistress. When I tell you that we did not want to allow this
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I saw him online and I was impressed. He had created an ad looking for a submissive Black woman. He praised Black women as his preference above all others and from his photos he was sexy as hell. I reached out to him, clearly stating that I was not what he was looking for, yet
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When single women learn about the concept of Female Led Relationships many of them are afraid of it. Others immediately reject the concept because it will mean that they have to learn how to think for themselves and walk away from the “right path” of submission that was introduced to them during their youth. Then
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Why does this gender inequality still persist, and how can we stop it? I don’t have all the answers. And frankly, it’s sexist of you to think I do just because I’m a man. C’mon! Besides, it’s not my place to mansplain to you about the manstitutionalized manvantages built into Americman manciety. That would make
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We laugh a lot. I am not sure what you might expect from a training group on Female Led Relationships but during our weekly LIVE TALK discussions where we meet via video/audio conference calls, we talk about the issues we are facing in our relationships and we laugh- A LOT. I do a presentation on
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I recently had my first experience with a submissive male. Well, this wasn’t my actual FIRST experience. The first submissive male who approached me forgot to tell me he had a domme until 3 weeks after we started dating. That happened a little over 2 years ago. So this was my second time allowing a
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It was dark out when I met him. I was out enjoying the night breeze, taking a walk in my neighborhood. He said Hello and I smiled back. He called me Miss and asked for a moment of my time. I obliged, curious to hear what this smiling stranger had to say. “I love your
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This is week 2 of the Female Led Relationship Training for Women and we have a lot to look forward to. The 4 week training course started out with 3 women but I allowed one more to join late, which I was hesitant to do because the vibe between all of the women was great
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What does it mean when a submissive man says that he wants to be dominated by a woman? It could mean so many things…and it does. I asked the male readers of ConquerHim to describe what they mean when they say they want to be dominated by a woman and the responses were as colorful
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The spanking, that first one, was such a surprise. Her reason for giving me the spanking was because i hadn’t emptied the trash, but She had not asked me to empty it previously. In fact, She had cautioned me not to act too pussy whipped in front of Her Mom, who was staying with U/us.
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This happened in late November 2013, about a dozen years after i had my first spanking, the event that changed over a decades of playing with Femdom and FLR to really living it. The first 20 years together, i tried to pretend i was the stereotypical good husband. i helped out with domestic chores, but when
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While I am sitting here absolutely FULL of laughter, I decided that I must share my thoughts about what is happening in our FLR Training for Women so far. Tonight was our first night, but I allowed the women to join the private Facebook group on Friday night. Over the weekend they completed their first
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The concept of FLR or Femdom lifestyle is still to catch up in India as you must be well aware, although things are slowly changing now and for the better i would say. but when i got married some years ago this beautiful form of lifestyle was not heard of. my marriage had been pretty
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I am very much intrigued by the new group of women who are enrolled in the FLR Training that begins at the end of this month. As the women register I ask them to complete a general assessment questionnaire so that I can find out what they want to learn. I then create lessons around their
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What is kink? Kink is defined as unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. If unconventional is the benchmark for being labeled kink then all female led relationships should be considered kinky. But no, kink has more to do with sex than the interpersonal relationship between two people so let’s stay focused. Kink is very often
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As I write this, my children are asleep in their room, Loretta Lynn is on the stereo, and my wife is out on a date with a man named Paulo. It’s her second date this week; her fourth this month so far. If it goes like the others, she’ll come home in the middle of the night, crawl into bed
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Week 4 of our Female Led Relationship training class for men has ended. The objective of this course was to introduce a common set of standards for men who are preparing for Female Led Relationships. Course participants were offered daily discussion questions via a private Facebook group, weekly writing assignments, weekly active challenges to get
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I believe that in a Female Led Relationship a man should always be willing to sacrifice for the Woman in his life. It’s no secret that people’s agendas and goals do not always match up perfectly in relationships. When this happens a man should be prepared to put the Woman before himself. Sacrifice for a Woman
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This week during our Female Led Relationship training class for men, I wanted to focus our group discussions on problem solving and building helpful skill sets. I wholeheartedly believe that Female Led Relationships can become more than just than just a reversal of gender roles and chastity training. I believe that if the couple strikes
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