Either I am becoming much better at predicting the future or I have just been through so many dating disasters that I am wiser. Either way, I want to pass along my wisdom to you, dear Goddess. There is not a single time that I venture out of my home and a man does not
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As I continue to coach women through Conquer Him’s FLR Training For Women, I am noticing a recurring theme that I feel is general enough to address publicly. Most women who are introduced to Female Led Relationships by their husbands or partners are told that they should become a Mistress or at least call themselves
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There are some women who crumble under pressure. There are others who seem to never sweat over the lows of life. There are even women who take a few tumbles before they understand this very important lesson but when they do, they become the women who become legends in their own right. The women of
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As I read through the surveys that I collected from dominant women I came across a question that made me smile. One anonymous woman asked: Who is the person running this site? Well, I know that I have mentioned a few of my dating stories here and there but I would like to take the
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Hello ladies! We are excited to have reached our goal for our Submissive Male Survey! Thank you so much to all of the men who shared their opinions so that we can improve our future training courses and write more effective posts on Conquer Him! The results were interesting and they will be shared right
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Hello guys! This is Queenie, the Publisher of ConquerHim.Com and I want to reach out to you to address an issue that hinders me from continuing this project. Conquer Him is for WOMEN. This site aims to teach women the value of partnering with a submissive man and how to lead him with LOVE. Through
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I find that many men and women mistake female domination for leadership in a Female Led Relationship. Although it may feel like the woman is leading when she behaves in a dominant manner, it is not true leadership. Domination happens when the woman exerts her control over the man, choosing his clothes, making decisions for
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He said Good Morning as I walked past him. I was wrapped up in my thoughts of a sweetheart submissive from my past that I almost didn’t think to acknowledge his greeting, but I did. I kept walking and found a spot in the grass so that I could watch the sun rise over the
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It started with a walk to the park. There I sat, watching the sun go down over the lake at MacArthur Park simply minding my own business. A woman walks by and asks if she could sit with me and I shrug. She regales me with stories of her latest life adventures. Despite many setbacks
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As I continue to coordinate Conquer Him’s Female Led Relationship Training For Women, the ladies who participate are free to share every concern they have while structuring their FLRs. There are a few issues that most women seem to mention but there is one that stands out because it directly impacts the basic ingredient of
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Femdom (female domination) is a BDSM term that describes a relationship between a man and a woman that is based on hierarchy. The woman is the ultimate authority and enforcer of rules in her relationship. She expends a great amount of time and effort ensuring that her male partner is compliant with her wishes. Femdom
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People may argue about whether or not a Female Led Relationship needs to use chastity control to work well. They may also debate about whether or not the man is inferior to the woman in the relationship. Of all the debates and options all couples may encounter while structuring their Female Led Relationship there is
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If you are seeking a Female Led Relationship because you are tired of attracting dominant men who put their needs first and do not consider you at all, you are not the only woman who feels this way. In fact, many women yearn for FLRs because they are the most healing relationships you may ever
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During Conquer Him Academy’s Female Led Relationship training course, women report being overwhelmed by the concept of a FLR. They say they feel pressured to conform to the ideals that their submissive partners present and it causes them to slack off in disappointment. One student reported that her husband consistently requested that she dress in
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I saw him online and I was impressed. He had created an ad looking for a submissive Black woman. He praised Black women as his preference above all others and from his photos he was sexy as hell. I reached out to him, clearly stating that I was not what he was looking for, yet
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When single women learn about the concept of Female Led Relationships many of them are afraid of it. Others immediately reject the concept because it will mean that they have to learn how to think for themselves and walk away from the “right path” of submission that was introduced to them during their youth. Then
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I recently had my first experience with a submissive male. Â Well, this wasn’t my actual FIRST experience. The first submissive male who approached me forgot to tell me he had a domme until 3 weeks after we started dating. That happened a little over 2 years ago. So this was my second time allowing a
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It was dark out when I met him. I was out enjoying the night breeze, taking a walk in my neighborhood. He said Hello and I smiled back. He called me Miss and asked for a moment of my time. I obliged, curious to hear what this smiling stranger had to say. “I love your
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What does it mean when a submissive man says that he wants to be dominated by a woman? It could mean so many things…and it does. I asked the male readers of ConquerHim to describe what they mean when they say they want to be dominated by a woman and the  responses were as colorful
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What is kink? Kink is defined as unconventional sexual practices, concepts or fantasies. If unconventional is the benchmark for being labeled kink then all female led relationships should be considered kinky. But no, kink has more to do with sex than the interpersonal relationship between two people so let’s stay focused. Kink is very often
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